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Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩

Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩🇪😍

My story’s going viral in Germany, Austria, Croatia, and Switzerland right now, and I am tickled pink!

I shared on the radio interview that the first time I went viral, it was an emotional roller coaster!

The fans came out, yes, as well as the haters, and I was overwhelmed by the huge jump in my income and following… and felt super vulnerable in being so globally known/exposed.

But now, with this being the 4th time going viral, it feels normal, it feels safe, it feels GOOD.

I’m grateful to reach so many people.
I’m grateful to inspire so many people.
I’m grateful to even trigger some people.

It’s all an invitation to go even deeper, to uncover our own preconceived ideas, beliefs, and values and find which ones are true and beautiful… and which ones are fear-and-judgment-based.

It’s an invitation to become an even more beautiful version of us.

And I am honored to be part of that process.☺️

Thank you @radio_hashtagplus for having me today!

And greetings to all my new European followers!🥰 So grateful to have you here!!!

📸: @riccardo.constant

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself. I

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself.

I didn’t even know what that meant.

All I knew about money was that you had to earn it through a traditional job, unless you were one of the ‘lucky’ humans who somehow had the secret to making lots of money in non-traditional ways.

I didn’t view myself as lucky.

I viewed myself as the opposite.

Because no matter how hard I worked, I still never had enough money.

But now?

Now I make more money during a livestream than I used to make in a month.

Now I make in a few hours what used to take me 30-45 days to earn.

And while it’s my new normal, it still puts me in awe every time.

Because it’s so different from where I was just a few years ago, which was:

- having my card declined at the grocery store

- buying food for my babies with food stamps

- having a non-profit organization for low-income families pay for my kiddos’ birthday parties

- borrowing money from friends and family to pay our monthly bills

But even with all that, I didn't let it stop me.

I didn’t let my current circumstances or the f*cking patriarchy or all the queerphobia stop me from rising up and taking my place.

I instead stepped into my power and claimed what was ultimately true:

I am worthy of it all, and I get to have it all.

Period.

That truth is what kept me going all these years, through all the uncertainty, all the bumps along the way, all the crazy big investments I made into myself, all.of.it.

I stayed the course.
And here I am.

Everything I do and share is to help you see what is possible for YOU.

- To plant the seed of possibility within you and water it until it's in full bloom in your life.

- To fan into flame the fire of greatness with you.

- To calibrate you to a new frequency that leads to new results in your life.

- To help you... have it all.

If that is what you're ready for, then hit that life coaching link below.

I got you.

(Which photo do you like better - 1 or 2?🤩)

My livestreams are magical. I don’t know exactl

My livestreams are magical.

I don’t know exactly how it happens but every time, it’s like stepping through a portal.

A portal where next-level love, energy, hotness, erotica, and laughter meld together into one euphoric experience.

It takes my breath away, blows my fans away, and makes it something you never forget.

If you haven’t experienced one of my 0F livestreams before, today’s the day.

I’m going LIVE in 3 hours (6pm PST / 9pm EST) and HIGHLY recommend you being there.

Plus I threw in a discount that’s only good for today.😘

I got you!
And I’m ready for you!

Hit that l!nk in my b!o!

So excited to have you!😍

📸: @jsmithrevealed

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and had a blast!🎄🤩

So grateful for amazing friends who do amazing work in the world who host amazing events and love people in amazing ways.❤️

My life feels like a fairytale most of the time and this weekend was no exception!!😍

Life gets to be everything you imagine it to be.

Don’t settle.
Don’t give up.
Don’t hold back.

Love yourself enough to give yourself the life of your dreams.

You’re worth it.❤️💃🏽❤️

Thank you @elissamwilliams and @alyssaloving for hosting! What a magical night!🌟

P.S. Hosting a livestream tomorrow evening on my private site! It’s going to be SUCH an amazing time! Sign up in my bio!!🤩🔥

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I ha

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I have!

Where I make between $30,000 and $100,000 a month!

Where I live in a million dollar home!

Where I have an amazing team working for me!

Where I get to take my babies on all kinds of trips!

Where I no longer have to say no because of money!

To me, that is freedom.
That is joy.
That is peace.
That is abundance.

And as I continue to say yes to my heart’s desires, the more beautiful my life becomes.

I trust myself.
I love myself.
I believe in myself.

And my life responds to my energy!

Life loves me!
Money loves me!
Success loves me!
Love loves me!

I’ve fully surrendered to my magic, my power, my purpose. Of course my life gets better.🤩

But it started with me taking a leap of faith for me, going all in on me, betting on me… even when it was crazy, didn’t make sense, and people would have been horrified had they known some of the early decisions I made to get where I am today… and it’s paid off a hundredfold!

Your job is to deeply trust yourself, take any and all inspired action you feel led to take, block out any and all outside opinions/fears/judgments, and TO NOT QUIT.

Not quitting is key.

If you quit, you won’t make it.
If you don’t quit, you WILL make it.

It’s that simple.

Not saying it’s easy.

It’s very tempting to quit when things don’t look like they’re working, but good god, I’m so glad I didn’t quit!

- Even when family thought I was crazy

- Even when we had less money than we were spending

- Even when my investments weren’t giving me a return as quickly as I had liked

- Even when my marriage fell apart

- Even when I became a single mother of three

I.didn’t.quit.

I stayed the course, and here I motherfucking am.

You’ve got this.
You’re going to make it.
Do not quit.

Love you!!

(Someone asked in a fb group of a time when you had no money and still managed to make it.

And that question is what inspired this post. I hope it inspires you and gives you permission to make the decisions you need to make so you can get where you know you’re meant to be.❤️ (Part 2 of 2)

In 2017, we were broke. We were working harder and

In 2017, we were broke. We were working harder and longer hours and still managed to make less money every year. It was baffling.

After trying all the things (ie: Dave Ramsey’s program, working with a financial planner because that’s what I thought we were supposed to, budgeting every dollar we made, etc) and finding NONE of them worked for us… I realized what we needed was a life coach.

Someone to help me rewire my life from the inside out.

I realized the externals weren’t working because my internal shit wasn’t figured out.

I found the life coach I was meant to work with, and he charged $15,000 to work with him.

Though that was a shit ton of money for us back then, I didn’t bat an eye when he told me his rate. I was ready to change our lives and was willing to pay whatever it cost to do just that.

And lo and behold… all the money we had in the world was $5,000 in our savings account and $10,000 in our retirement accounts. $15,000 total.

We cashed it all in to hire my life coach. Every last penny.

It was scary… and yet I KNEW it was the right decision for us.

Those 6 months with my life coach changed my life.

- I saw things in a whole new light.

- I understood universal law in a I-can’t-get-enough-of-this kind of way.

- I saw possibilities where I only saw locked doors before.

- I finally understood what abundance and lack were.

And my world began to change.

I started my life coaching business and had my first $99/month, then a $250/month, then $1,000/month, then $3,000/mo.

Then I hired another life coach and charged it to my first credit card in 8 years.

I then had my first $10,000/mo.

Then I joined a mastermind, of which I’ve been a part for 2 and 1/2 years now!

I continued to invest in programs, courses, and master classes, having invested over $100,000 in personal development, and I just made another $20,000 investment recently!

Any inspired action I felt called to make, I did.

Whether it was investing in my first life coach, my first $2,000 course, $30,000 masterminds, moving my family from the Midwest to the West Coast, trading my $700/mo mortgage for a nearly $5,000 monthly lease instead…(part 1 of 2)

📸: @ezekielphotography

Your success is guaranteed. When I first learned

Your success is guaranteed.

When I first learned this in 2017, it blew me away.

How could little ol’ me and my success be guaranteed?

I was still living in a mindset of separation.

Separate from God.
Separate from love.
Separate from success.

It was me against the world.

And I had gathered enough evidence to back up that belief: lots of struggle, lack, and hardship.

>>>Until I learned differently<<<

Until I learned that success is who I am.

That’s when everything began to change in my life.

Because how can you not experience that which you are?!

When I stopped questioning my success and assumed it was a given, everything in my life started to take off!

Showing up to life with the assumption that your success is guaranteed and locked in at the level of identity… changes everything.

It shifts your energy.
It changes your attitude.
It elevates your frequency.
It ups your vibration.

And everything you want starts coming to you!

You’re not busy questioning it, you’re being a MATCH for it. That’s the key to having what you want!

Me having a million dollar year is guaranteed.

I don’t question it.

It’s a matter of WHEN, not if.

Sure there are moments where I wish it would happen faster, but deep within me, I believe a million dollar year is mine.

As is million dollar months and eventually million dollar days.

Because I know it’s guaranteed, I focus on what I feel called to create, be, and do.

With a guaranteed outcome, it eliminates the stress and accelerates the process!

So lock in the belief that who you are is success, and success will be yours!

Let me know below what you’re locking in for yourself! What is a guaranteed outcome for you? Share with me below!

Looking for support?

Hit the life coaching link in my bio to reserve your spot!!

Pics: painting fun with my girls! And the locking in of my goals of course😎

I’ve never felt more feminine in my life. I’v

I’ve never felt more feminine in my life.

I’ve also never been more powerful.

I love that about my life.

I love that I am able to embody what I once was taught were two opposing things.

Like femininity and power.
Goodness and wealth.
Sexuality and spirituality.
Queerness and success.

What once felt foreign and separate, I live and breathe with ease.

I love being feminine.
I love feeling powerful.

I love being thoughtful.
I love how fast I move.

I love being spiritual.
I love being sexual.

I love being queer.
I love being successful.

I love it all.
And I love all of me.

The more I lean into the essence of who I am, the easier, better, and more magical my life becomes.

There’s an ease and effortlessness that courses through my veins and manifests in my life, making me powerful… and unstoppable.

And really, really grateful.

That part of you that you think is untouchable, unloveable, or unmarketable? Is likely the very thing that makes you YOU, brings you the most joy, attracts all the right people, and makes you the most money.

Lean into that part of you.
Love that side of you.
Being willing to express that part of you.

And see just how magical your life becomes.

Looking for support?

Hit that life coaching link in my bio.
I got you!❤️

Photos: me on a magical date and attending a moving play. It was a beautiful day!

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Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩

Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩🇪😍

My story’s going viral in Germany, Austria, Croatia, and Switzerland right now, and I am tickled pink!

I shared on the radio interview that the first time I went viral, it was an emotional roller coaster!

The fans came out, yes, as well as the haters, and I was overwhelmed by the huge jump in my income and following… and felt super vulnerable in being so globally known/exposed.

But now, with this being the 4th time going viral, it feels normal, it feels safe, it feels GOOD.

I’m grateful to reach so many people.
I’m grateful to inspire so many people.
I’m grateful to even trigger some people.

It’s all an invitation to go even deeper, to uncover our own preconceived ideas, beliefs, and values and find which ones are true and beautiful… and which ones are fear-and-judgment-based.

It’s an invitation to become an even more beautiful version of us.

And I am honored to be part of that process.☺️

Thank you @radio_hashtagplus for having me today!

And greetings to all my new European followers!🥰 So grateful to have you here!!!

📸: @riccardo.constant

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself. I

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself.

I didn’t even know what that meant.

All I knew about money was that you had to earn it through a traditional job, unless you were one of the ‘lucky’ humans who somehow had the secret to making lots of money in non-traditional ways.

I didn’t view myself as lucky.

I viewed myself as the opposite.

Because no matter how hard I worked, I still never had enough money.

But now?

Now I make more money during a livestream than I used to make in a month.

Now I make in a few hours what used to take me 30-45 days to earn.

And while it’s my new normal, it still puts me in awe every time.

Because it’s so different from where I was just a few years ago, which was:

- having my card declined at the grocery store

- buying food for my babies with food stamps

- having a non-profit organization for low-income families pay for my kiddos’ birthday parties

- borrowing money from friends and family to pay our monthly bills

But even with all that, I didn't let it stop me.

I didn’t let my current circumstances or the f*cking patriarchy or all the queerphobia stop me from rising up and taking my place.

I instead stepped into my power and claimed what was ultimately true:

I am worthy of it all, and I get to have it all.

Period.

That truth is what kept me going all these years, through all the uncertainty, all the bumps along the way, all the crazy big investments I made into myself, all.of.it.

I stayed the course.
And here I am.

Everything I do and share is to help you see what is possible for YOU.

- To plant the seed of possibility within you and water it until it's in full bloom in your life.

- To fan into flame the fire of greatness with you.

- To calibrate you to a new frequency that leads to new results in your life.

- To help you... have it all.

If that is what you're ready for, then hit that life coaching link below.

I got you.

(Which photo do you like better - 1 or 2?🤩)

My livestreams are magical. I don’t know exactl

My livestreams are magical.

I don’t know exactly how it happens but every time, it’s like stepping through a portal.

A portal where next-level love, energy, hotness, erotica, and laughter meld together into one euphoric experience.

It takes my breath away, blows my fans away, and makes it something you never forget.

If you haven’t experienced one of my 0F livestreams before, today’s the day.

I’m going LIVE in 3 hours (6pm PST / 9pm EST) and HIGHLY recommend you being there.

Plus I threw in a discount that’s only good for today.😘

I got you!
And I’m ready for you!

Hit that l!nk in my b!o!

So excited to have you!😍

📸: @jsmithrevealed

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and had a blast!🎄🤩

So grateful for amazing friends who do amazing work in the world who host amazing events and love people in amazing ways.❤️

My life feels like a fairytale most of the time and this weekend was no exception!!😍

Life gets to be everything you imagine it to be.

Don’t settle.
Don’t give up.
Don’t hold back.

Love yourself enough to give yourself the life of your dreams.

You’re worth it.❤️💃🏽❤️

Thank you @elissamwilliams and @alyssaloving for hosting! What a magical night!🌟

P.S. Hosting a livestream tomorrow evening on my private site! It’s going to be SUCH an amazing time! Sign up in my bio!!🤩🔥

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I ha

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I have!

Where I make between $30,000 and $100,000 a month!

Where I live in a million dollar home!

Where I have an amazing team working for me!

Where I get to take my babies on all kinds of trips!

Where I no longer have to say no because of money!

To me, that is freedom.
That is joy.
That is peace.
That is abundance.

And as I continue to say yes to my heart’s desires, the more beautiful my life becomes.

I trust myself.
I love myself.
I believe in myself.

And my life responds to my energy!

Life loves me!
Money loves me!
Success loves me!
Love loves me!

I’ve fully surrendered to my magic, my power, my purpose. Of course my life gets better.🤩

But it started with me taking a leap of faith for me, going all in on me, betting on me… even when it was crazy, didn’t make sense, and people would have been horrified had they known some of the early decisions I made to get where I am today… and it’s paid off a hundredfold!

Your job is to deeply trust yourself, take any and all inspired action you feel led to take, block out any and all outside opinions/fears/judgments, and TO NOT QUIT.

Not quitting is key.

If you quit, you won’t make it.
If you don’t quit, you WILL make it.

It’s that simple.

Not saying it’s easy.

It’s very tempting to quit when things don’t look like they’re working, but good god, I’m so glad I didn’t quit!

- Even when family thought I was crazy

- Even when we had less money than we were spending

- Even when my investments weren’t giving me a return as quickly as I had liked

- Even when my marriage fell apart

- Even when I became a single mother of three

I.didn’t.quit.

I stayed the course, and here I motherfucking am.

You’ve got this.
You’re going to make it.
Do not quit.

Love you!!

(Someone asked in a fb group of a time when you had no money and still managed to make it.

And that question is what inspired this post. I hope it inspires you and gives you permission to make the decisions you need to make so you can get where you know you’re meant to be.❤️ (Part 2 of 2)

In 2017, we were broke. We were working harder and

In 2017, we were broke. We were working harder and longer hours and still managed to make less money every year. It was baffling.

After trying all the things (ie: Dave Ramsey’s program, working with a financial planner because that’s what I thought we were supposed to, budgeting every dollar we made, etc) and finding NONE of them worked for us… I realized what we needed was a life coach.

Someone to help me rewire my life from the inside out.

I realized the externals weren’t working because my internal shit wasn’t figured out.

I found the life coach I was meant to work with, and he charged $15,000 to work with him.

Though that was a shit ton of money for us back then, I didn’t bat an eye when he told me his rate. I was ready to change our lives and was willing to pay whatever it cost to do just that.

And lo and behold… all the money we had in the world was $5,000 in our savings account and $10,000 in our retirement accounts. $15,000 total.

We cashed it all in to hire my life coach. Every last penny.

It was scary… and yet I KNEW it was the right decision for us.

Those 6 months with my life coach changed my life.

- I saw things in a whole new light.

- I understood universal law in a I-can’t-get-enough-of-this kind of way.

- I saw possibilities where I only saw locked doors before.

- I finally understood what abundance and lack were.

And my world began to change.

I started my life coaching business and had my first $99/month, then a $250/month, then $1,000/month, then $3,000/mo.

Then I hired another life coach and charged it to my first credit card in 8 years.

I then had my first $10,000/mo.

Then I joined a mastermind, of which I’ve been a part for 2 and 1/2 years now!

I continued to invest in programs, courses, and master classes, having invested over $100,000 in personal development, and I just made another $20,000 investment recently!

Any inspired action I felt called to make, I did.

Whether it was investing in my first life coach, my first $2,000 course, $30,000 masterminds, moving my family from the Midwest to the West Coast, trading my $700/mo mortgage for a nearly $5,000 monthly lease instead…(part 1 of 2)

📸: @ezekielphotography

Your success is guaranteed. When I first learned

Your success is guaranteed.

When I first learned this in 2017, it blew me away.

How could little ol’ me and my success be guaranteed?

I was still living in a mindset of separation.

Separate from God.
Separate from love.
Separate from success.

It was me against the world.

And I had gathered enough evidence to back up that belief: lots of struggle, lack, and hardship.

>>>Until I learned differently<<<

Until I learned that success is who I am.

That’s when everything began to change in my life.

Because how can you not experience that which you are?!

When I stopped questioning my success and assumed it was a given, everything in my life started to take off!

Showing up to life with the assumption that your success is guaranteed and locked in at the level of identity… changes everything.

It shifts your energy.
It changes your attitude.
It elevates your frequency.
It ups your vibration.

And everything you want starts coming to you!

You’re not busy questioning it, you’re being a MATCH for it. That’s the key to having what you want!

Me having a million dollar year is guaranteed.

I don’t question it.

It’s a matter of WHEN, not if.

Sure there are moments where I wish it would happen faster, but deep within me, I believe a million dollar year is mine.

As is million dollar months and eventually million dollar days.

Because I know it’s guaranteed, I focus on what I feel called to create, be, and do.

With a guaranteed outcome, it eliminates the stress and accelerates the process!

So lock in the belief that who you are is success, and success will be yours!

Let me know below what you’re locking in for yourself! What is a guaranteed outcome for you? Share with me below!

Looking for support?

Hit the life coaching link in my bio to reserve your spot!!

Pics: painting fun with my girls! And the locking in of my goals of course😎

I’ve never felt more feminine in my life. I’v

I’ve never felt more feminine in my life.

I’ve also never been more powerful.

I love that about my life.

I love that I am able to embody what I once was taught were two opposing things.

Like femininity and power.
Goodness and wealth.
Sexuality and spirituality.
Queerness and success.

What once felt foreign and separate, I live and breathe with ease.

I love being feminine.
I love feeling powerful.

I love being thoughtful.
I love how fast I move.

I love being spiritual.
I love being sexual.

I love being queer.
I love being successful.

I love it all.
And I love all of me.

The more I lean into the essence of who I am, the easier, better, and more magical my life becomes.

There’s an ease and effortlessness that courses through my veins and manifests in my life, making me powerful… and unstoppable.

And really, really grateful.

That part of you that you think is untouchable, unloveable, or unmarketable? Is likely the very thing that makes you YOU, brings you the most joy, attracts all the right people, and makes you the most money.

Lean into that part of you.
Love that side of you.
Being willing to express that part of you.

And see just how magical your life becomes.

Looking for support?

Hit that life coaching link in my bio.
I got you!❤️

Photos: me on a magical date and attending a moving play. It was a beautiful day!

Follow on Instagram

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell. Site by Micah J. Murray.

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell.
Site by Micah J. Murray.