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Before each quantum leap in my life, I have had mo

Before each quantum leap in my life, I have had moments where I think I am absolutely crazy, I’ve lost my marbles, I’ve gone off the deep end.

And yet at the same time... beneath the fear and wild emotions, I have a deep peace... and when I tap into it, it transcends everything.

I felt crazy when I chose to go to an expensive out-of-state private college with no money to my name instead of a free local college my parents worked at. (Result? I ended up getting a full ride scholarship and the highest paying job at my college which paid for everything else).

I felt crazy when I chose to invest in my first life coach, which was more money than I had to my name, but I did it anyway! (Result? Made that money back in less than a year).

I felt crazy when I moved to California where my rent cost 6x more than my mortgage and my kids’ tuition cost 20x more than their tuition in Minnesota. (Result? My income went from $10k months to $100k months after moving here).

I felt crazy when I chose to let go of my marriage and step into the unknown as a single mom. (Result? I’m in the most loving, mind-blowing relationship of my life that I still pinch myself over).

All that to say, I have felt crazy many, many, many times in my life... and it has ALWAYS worked out in ways BETTER than I could have imagined.

I am where I am because I took those leaps!
I am where I am because I trusted those nudges!
I am where I am because I trusted ME.

And I’m now enjoying the fruit of my faith, my trust, my action.

I am here with a heart full, my eyes brimming with tears, because I created this beautiful life! This delicious, org@smic, sensu@l, sexy, and free life that is more beautiful than I can capture on social media.

And it has taught me that I’m NOT crazy. I am spot on every damn time.

I’ve learned I can trust my path, I can trust my desires, I can trust myself.

I always come out on top.

And the view just keeps getting better.

📸: @mistervixens + pics of my flight to New York earlier this month😍✈️

A million dollars was the stuff of dreams. For Ho

A million dollars was the stuff of dreams.

For Hollywood actors, CEOs, and those with generational wealth.

But not me.

It was something I wasn’t and would never be.

But it didn’t stop me from fantasizing about it.

To make 7 figures was the ultimate goal!

That dream was almost completely lost during my years on food stamps.

How could I, a mom of 3 kids, working a bar tending job til 2 in the morning, dare to imagine making that kind of money?

I couldn’t even afford groceries!

But isn’t it amazing how our dreams don’t give up on us even when we’ve given up on them?

They stay there, lovingly and quietly pestering you with a still small voice you can’t totally tune out.

It can feel like it’s taunting you when it’s really just reminding you of the truth.

That you are powerful.
Capable.
Unstoppable.

That you get to have money, lots of it, more than you know what to do with.

That you can trust yourself with your leveling up, and if money belongs to anyone, it belongs to you.

And before you know it, you find yourself betting on yourself once again.

Because there’s a part of you that won’t quit believing.

So you stay the course, you trust your intuition, and you grow from ALL of it - the good the bad, the hard the easy, the beautiful the ugly.

If there’s anyone who knows how to turn shit into gold, it’s you.

You are the greatest alchemist.

You take the impossible and you make it YOURS.

You create beauty where there is none, you see a future when you feel like you’ve reached the end of you, and you allow yourself to be reborn once again.

And up from those ashes rises a stronger, wiser, truer version of you.

You were purified by the fire and who emerged was the next level version of you.

The exact person needed for this next level.

You step out into the light and there’s a fortitude in you that can be seen, felt, and transmitted.

Your strength strengthens others.
Your faith fuels others.
Your fire fortifies others.
Your transformation leads to their transformation.

You’ve become the very thing you never thought possible.

And now others get to become what they thought was impossible.

And that’s the whole damn point.
🔥😎🔥

📸: @happiertrigger

May of 2018 was the first month I made money in my

May of 2018 was the first month I made money in my business.

A grand total of $99.

And yet I cried when I made those $99. Because no boss gave that to me. I created that! On my own!

The next month I would go on to make $250 and I cried even harder.

It was happening!

Slowly but surely, I was making money doing what I love!

I went on to a $500 month, then my first $1,000 month, then just 8 months after my first $99 month, I had my first $10,000 month!

Holy crap!

I cried and cried and cried.

I had seen so many coaches online making $10k months so to finally experience it myself was thrilling, healing, and relieving, knowing I too had the power to create any financial reality I desired!

5 figure months were completely foreign to me until I saw people online doing it.

This is the gift of the Internet.

We are exposed to things we otherwise wouldn’t be.

Seeing other people’s success planted seeds within me and as they continued to create more wealth and success, it watered those seeds… and slowly a tender little sapling grew.

I protected that sapling with everything I had.

It was important I didn’t expose my dreams to just anyone.

My job was to incubate my dreams until they were sturdy, stable, and solid in me.

Then and only then, could I slowly expose them to the light of day. When I knew they could handle the elements.

That little sapling grew into a solid tree that was destined for heights yet to be scaled.

It grew stronger, even as it faced harsh winds, cold nights, and long scorching days.

That tree drew its nutrients from deep within and she stood the test of time.

And today I am celebrating crossing 7 figures in my business!😭🌱

Don’t underestimate the dreams within you.

Don’t downplay the power that courses through your veins.

Don’t ignore the still small voice that’s telling you there’s more.

There IS more.
So much more!!!

As far as you’ve gotten, as much as you’ve accomplished, even more is on its way to you.

And it’s going to be so freaking beautiful!!

📸: @48thstreetphotography

From the pulpit to the pole… From sermons to st

From the pulpit to the pole…

From sermons to str*pping…

From good girl to free woman…

From caged to free…

I can be anything I want to be.

What a journey it’s been.

I am so grateful to @queermajority and @zacharyzane_ for having me and letting me share my story.

Hope this article speaks to you and gives YOU permission to know thyself, love thyself, and make bank being thyself.

Link in bio!

Love you!!!

Love when my 1:1 coaching calls are spent celebrat

Love when my 1:1 coaching calls are spent celebrating all the goodness in my client’s lives!!

No coaching; all celebrating!!

When everything is flowing, working, and moving in the right direction.

When relationships deepen, growth is happening, and fun is being had.

When all the work you’ve been putting in overflows into a life of ease, love, happiness, and abundance.

It’s one of my favorite moments!

What a joy it is to help clients work through really hard times and to be there when they reach the other side.

To remind them how far they’ve come.

To celebrate them for how much they’ve grown.

To throw a virtual party when they’ve reached milestones.

To normalize, stabilize, and increase their capacity for more good, more joy, more money, more success, more of everything they want.

To reach new levels of peace, power, pleasure, and have that become their new foundation.

To live a life fully-expressed, without shame, and with nothing to prove.

My clients are a living embodiment of what it means to be fully human, fully alive, fully in love, and fully expressed.

Their fullness is their gift.

Their muchness is their magic.

Their wins are their wisdom.

Their joy is contagious!

And they are just beginning!!!

What a joy and honor it is to serve you and celebrate as you become the greatest version of yourselves!!

📸: @mistervixens + photos from a night out on the town in my new favorite dress😍👗

There are moments where life takes my breath away.

There are moments where life takes my breath away.

Where I look around me and the life I once dreamed of having is here in its fullness.

Where the places I go are beautiful and breath taking.

Where the food I eat is delicious and beautifully presented.

Where the clothes I wear make me feel like a goddess.

Where the people I spend time with are inspiring and a living embodiment of their goals and dreams.

And Monday night was one of those nights.

It feels so far away and then one day you wake up and you realize you’re “there”.

Your “there” has become your “here”, and it’s one of the most surreal and beautiful moments life has to offer.

❤️❤️❤️

📸: @mistervixens

I remember a couple years ago, one of the coaches

I remember a couple years ago, one of the coaches I followed online was incredibly fashionable and had such a sense of style.

I was in awe of her ability to know herself so well that she knew what to wear and always nailed the look.

I learned she got inspo pics from Pinterest and had a stylist, so I hopped on Pinterest and tried to get a sense of my style, while vainly and briefly looking at stylists I couldn’t afford.

She wore luxury name brands. I had no clue who the name brands were.

I feared I’d never be fashionable like her.

Then a couple months ago I was at a brunch where I didn’t know most of the women, and one of them looked at me and asked, “Are you into fashion?”

I stammered and stuttered, assuming “fashion” meant “luxury name brands”, and tripped over my words as I replied with, “Umm, kind of but not really?”

The woman looked at my outfit and goes, “Honey, you’re into fashion. Look at your outfit. You’re poppin.”

I laughed and said, “Oh if you mean do I like to pop, then yes!! I’m into fashion!”

And I realized… without Pinterest and without a stylist, I found my sense of style.

Where my outsides match my insides.

Where people will stop me on a regular basis to compliment me on my outfits and it feels so good.

It feels so good to notice when you’ve evolved into the woman you’ve wanted to become.

It feels so good when you stop trying to do it like others and trust your own process, your own evolution, instead.

It feels so good when something that once felt off limit to you becomes your new normal.

It feels so good to trust your own embodiment, your unique expression.

To know that any woman who’s gone before you isn’t necessarily so you can do it just like her but for you to know you can do it too.

In your timing, in your way, on your terms.

That’s where the magic lies.

In YOU.
❤️❤️❤️

📸: some of my favorite outfits🥰

I get a LOT of questions in my DMs. Questions ran

I get a LOT of questions in my DMs.

Questions ranging from parenting to seggs work to modeling to being an entrepreneur to wealth energetics and more.

I LOVE these questions.

And yet I don’t always have the chance to go as deep into my replies because time, demand, and finger typing energy.😅
 So I’m now implementing a monthly livestream in my 0F where I dive DEEP into these questions!

I’m calling it my Seggs Ed Livestreams, and the first one is happening tomorrow (Tuesday!) at 1:15pm PST / 4:15pm EST / 9:15pm GMT!!  I am so excited!!!  I love offering more value and more content for my fans to enjoy, and I’m excited to add this monthly (and eventually bimonthly livestream) where we can dive deep into certain topics!  Topics like:  - How I went from seggsually repressed to seggsually free  - How I went from hating bl0h-j*b$ to loving them   - How I went from being embarrassed about my v@g to loving it and wanting to share it with the world

- Why I think all women should try seggs work   - How to date an online seggs worker (oh do I have tips!)  - Tips in helping folx with v@g!n@s org@$m  - How to make ay-n@l a pleasant experience for all  And more!! 
We’ll be covering it ALL in these monthly livestreams, and I am so excited!!!!

I’m hoping these will help answer your questions and give you a safe space to explore topics you’re interested in.

No shame or judgment here.

Only lots of love, support, openness, honesty, and encouragement to trust yourself.

Link in bio.

Can’t wait to dive deep with you.🥰

📸: @riccardo.constant + messages from amazing fans❤️

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Before each quantum leap in my life, I have had mo

Before each quantum leap in my life, I have had moments where I think I am absolutely crazy, I’ve lost my marbles, I’ve gone off the deep end.

And yet at the same time... beneath the fear and wild emotions, I have a deep peace... and when I tap into it, it transcends everything.

I felt crazy when I chose to go to an expensive out-of-state private college with no money to my name instead of a free local college my parents worked at. (Result? I ended up getting a full ride scholarship and the highest paying job at my college which paid for everything else).

I felt crazy when I chose to invest in my first life coach, which was more money than I had to my name, but I did it anyway! (Result? Made that money back in less than a year).

I felt crazy when I moved to California where my rent cost 6x more than my mortgage and my kids’ tuition cost 20x more than their tuition in Minnesota. (Result? My income went from $10k months to $100k months after moving here).

I felt crazy when I chose to let go of my marriage and step into the unknown as a single mom. (Result? I’m in the most loving, mind-blowing relationship of my life that I still pinch myself over).

All that to say, I have felt crazy many, many, many times in my life... and it has ALWAYS worked out in ways BETTER than I could have imagined.

I am where I am because I took those leaps!
I am where I am because I trusted those nudges!
I am where I am because I trusted ME.

And I’m now enjoying the fruit of my faith, my trust, my action.

I am here with a heart full, my eyes brimming with tears, because I created this beautiful life! This delicious, org@smic, sensu@l, sexy, and free life that is more beautiful than I can capture on social media.

And it has taught me that I’m NOT crazy. I am spot on every damn time.

I’ve learned I can trust my path, I can trust my desires, I can trust myself.

I always come out on top.

And the view just keeps getting better.

📸: @mistervixens + pics of my flight to New York earlier this month😍✈️

A million dollars was the stuff of dreams. For Ho

A million dollars was the stuff of dreams.

For Hollywood actors, CEOs, and those with generational wealth.

But not me.

It was something I wasn’t and would never be.

But it didn’t stop me from fantasizing about it.

To make 7 figures was the ultimate goal!

That dream was almost completely lost during my years on food stamps.

How could I, a mom of 3 kids, working a bar tending job til 2 in the morning, dare to imagine making that kind of money?

I couldn’t even afford groceries!

But isn’t it amazing how our dreams don’t give up on us even when we’ve given up on them?

They stay there, lovingly and quietly pestering you with a still small voice you can’t totally tune out.

It can feel like it’s taunting you when it’s really just reminding you of the truth.

That you are powerful.
Capable.
Unstoppable.

That you get to have money, lots of it, more than you know what to do with.

That you can trust yourself with your leveling up, and if money belongs to anyone, it belongs to you.

And before you know it, you find yourself betting on yourself once again.

Because there’s a part of you that won’t quit believing.

So you stay the course, you trust your intuition, and you grow from ALL of it - the good the bad, the hard the easy, the beautiful the ugly.

If there’s anyone who knows how to turn shit into gold, it’s you.

You are the greatest alchemist.

You take the impossible and you make it YOURS.

You create beauty where there is none, you see a future when you feel like you’ve reached the end of you, and you allow yourself to be reborn once again.

And up from those ashes rises a stronger, wiser, truer version of you.

You were purified by the fire and who emerged was the next level version of you.

The exact person needed for this next level.

You step out into the light and there’s a fortitude in you that can be seen, felt, and transmitted.

Your strength strengthens others.
Your faith fuels others.
Your fire fortifies others.
Your transformation leads to their transformation.

You’ve become the very thing you never thought possible.

And now others get to become what they thought was impossible.

And that’s the whole damn point.
🔥😎🔥

📸: @happiertrigger

May of 2018 was the first month I made money in my

May of 2018 was the first month I made money in my business.

A grand total of $99.

And yet I cried when I made those $99. Because no boss gave that to me. I created that! On my own!

The next month I would go on to make $250 and I cried even harder.

It was happening!

Slowly but surely, I was making money doing what I love!

I went on to a $500 month, then my first $1,000 month, then just 8 months after my first $99 month, I had my first $10,000 month!

Holy crap!

I cried and cried and cried.

I had seen so many coaches online making $10k months so to finally experience it myself was thrilling, healing, and relieving, knowing I too had the power to create any financial reality I desired!

5 figure months were completely foreign to me until I saw people online doing it.

This is the gift of the Internet.

We are exposed to things we otherwise wouldn’t be.

Seeing other people’s success planted seeds within me and as they continued to create more wealth and success, it watered those seeds… and slowly a tender little sapling grew.

I protected that sapling with everything I had.

It was important I didn’t expose my dreams to just anyone.

My job was to incubate my dreams until they were sturdy, stable, and solid in me.

Then and only then, could I slowly expose them to the light of day. When I knew they could handle the elements.

That little sapling grew into a solid tree that was destined for heights yet to be scaled.

It grew stronger, even as it faced harsh winds, cold nights, and long scorching days.

That tree drew its nutrients from deep within and she stood the test of time.

And today I am celebrating crossing 7 figures in my business!😭🌱

Don’t underestimate the dreams within you.

Don’t downplay the power that courses through your veins.

Don’t ignore the still small voice that’s telling you there’s more.

There IS more.
So much more!!!

As far as you’ve gotten, as much as you’ve accomplished, even more is on its way to you.

And it’s going to be so freaking beautiful!!

📸: @48thstreetphotography

From the pulpit to the pole… From sermons to st

From the pulpit to the pole…

From sermons to str*pping…

From good girl to free woman…

From caged to free…

I can be anything I want to be.

What a journey it’s been.

I am so grateful to @queermajority and @zacharyzane_ for having me and letting me share my story.

Hope this article speaks to you and gives YOU permission to know thyself, love thyself, and make bank being thyself.

Link in bio!

Love you!!!

Love when my 1:1 coaching calls are spent celebrat

Love when my 1:1 coaching calls are spent celebrating all the goodness in my client’s lives!!

No coaching; all celebrating!!

When everything is flowing, working, and moving in the right direction.

When relationships deepen, growth is happening, and fun is being had.

When all the work you’ve been putting in overflows into a life of ease, love, happiness, and abundance.

It’s one of my favorite moments!

What a joy it is to help clients work through really hard times and to be there when they reach the other side.

To remind them how far they’ve come.

To celebrate them for how much they’ve grown.

To throw a virtual party when they’ve reached milestones.

To normalize, stabilize, and increase their capacity for more good, more joy, more money, more success, more of everything they want.

To reach new levels of peace, power, pleasure, and have that become their new foundation.

To live a life fully-expressed, without shame, and with nothing to prove.

My clients are a living embodiment of what it means to be fully human, fully alive, fully in love, and fully expressed.

Their fullness is their gift.

Their muchness is their magic.

Their wins are their wisdom.

Their joy is contagious!

And they are just beginning!!!

What a joy and honor it is to serve you and celebrate as you become the greatest version of yourselves!!

📸: @mistervixens + photos from a night out on the town in my new favorite dress😍👗

There are moments where life takes my breath away.

There are moments where life takes my breath away.

Where I look around me and the life I once dreamed of having is here in its fullness.

Where the places I go are beautiful and breath taking.

Where the food I eat is delicious and beautifully presented.

Where the clothes I wear make me feel like a goddess.

Where the people I spend time with are inspiring and a living embodiment of their goals and dreams.

And Monday night was one of those nights.

It feels so far away and then one day you wake up and you realize you’re “there”.

Your “there” has become your “here”, and it’s one of the most surreal and beautiful moments life has to offer.

❤️❤️❤️

📸: @mistervixens

I remember a couple years ago, one of the coaches

I remember a couple years ago, one of the coaches I followed online was incredibly fashionable and had such a sense of style.

I was in awe of her ability to know herself so well that she knew what to wear and always nailed the look.

I learned she got inspo pics from Pinterest and had a stylist, so I hopped on Pinterest and tried to get a sense of my style, while vainly and briefly looking at stylists I couldn’t afford.

She wore luxury name brands. I had no clue who the name brands were.

I feared I’d never be fashionable like her.

Then a couple months ago I was at a brunch where I didn’t know most of the women, and one of them looked at me and asked, “Are you into fashion?”

I stammered and stuttered, assuming “fashion” meant “luxury name brands”, and tripped over my words as I replied with, “Umm, kind of but not really?”

The woman looked at my outfit and goes, “Honey, you’re into fashion. Look at your outfit. You’re poppin.”

I laughed and said, “Oh if you mean do I like to pop, then yes!! I’m into fashion!”

And I realized… without Pinterest and without a stylist, I found my sense of style.

Where my outsides match my insides.

Where people will stop me on a regular basis to compliment me on my outfits and it feels so good.

It feels so good to notice when you’ve evolved into the woman you’ve wanted to become.

It feels so good when you stop trying to do it like others and trust your own process, your own evolution, instead.

It feels so good when something that once felt off limit to you becomes your new normal.

It feels so good to trust your own embodiment, your unique expression.

To know that any woman who’s gone before you isn’t necessarily so you can do it just like her but for you to know you can do it too.

In your timing, in your way, on your terms.

That’s where the magic lies.

In YOU.
❤️❤️❤️

📸: some of my favorite outfits🥰

I get a LOT of questions in my DMs. Questions ran

I get a LOT of questions in my DMs.

Questions ranging from parenting to seggs work to modeling to being an entrepreneur to wealth energetics and more.

I LOVE these questions.

And yet I don’t always have the chance to go as deep into my replies because time, demand, and finger typing energy.😅
 So I’m now implementing a monthly livestream in my 0F where I dive DEEP into these questions!

I’m calling it my Seggs Ed Livestreams, and the first one is happening tomorrow (Tuesday!) at 1:15pm PST / 4:15pm EST / 9:15pm GMT!!  I am so excited!!!  I love offering more value and more content for my fans to enjoy, and I’m excited to add this monthly (and eventually bimonthly livestream) where we can dive deep into certain topics!  Topics like:  - How I went from seggsually repressed to seggsually free  - How I went from hating bl0h-j*b$ to loving them   - How I went from being embarrassed about my v@g to loving it and wanting to share it with the world

- Why I think all women should try seggs work   - How to date an online seggs worker (oh do I have tips!)  - Tips in helping folx with v@g!n@s org@$m  - How to make ay-n@l a pleasant experience for all  And more!! 
We’ll be covering it ALL in these monthly livestreams, and I am so excited!!!!

I’m hoping these will help answer your questions and give you a safe space to explore topics you’re interested in.

No shame or judgment here.

Only lots of love, support, openness, honesty, and encouragement to trust yourself.

Link in bio.

Can’t wait to dive deep with you.🥰

📸: @riccardo.constant + messages from amazing fans❤️

Follow on Instagram

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Site by Micah J. Murray.

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