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I’m competitive AF. I remember one time playing

I’m competitive AF.

I remember one time playing catch with a football with a guy I had recently met and when he caught the ball I threw to him, I then tackled him to the ground to try to get it back. He died laughing.😂 And I realized then that maybe you’re not supposed to tackle someone you just met… but that’s just how I roll.😄(and lo and behold, that man would later become my husband😆, {now ex-husband😁}).

Whether it’s throwing a football, playing ping pong, or a game of cards, I am absolutely determined to crush my opponent.😅

What’s so funny is that the same competitive edge that comes out during games… comes out in the way that I live life.

In the way that I drive🙈
In the way that I run my business😎
In the way that I make my decisions😏

I move with speed, tenacity, vision, and intention.

What looks magical on the outside is the result of the intentions I’ve made on the inside.

What looks easy to others is the result of me refusing to give up, even when the odds stood against me.

The very competitive edge I had in me as a kid is the very thing that keeps me winning at life*.

(*Without the whole crushing-my-opponent vibe. There’s no one to crush, no need to exploit, no reason to be unethical. You can rise up and win from a place of clean, loving energy, intentions, and decisions. Remember that).

And I love that.

I love seeing how our quirkiness from childhood often ends up being the most magical thing about us.

The more I love me, the more I lean into my wiring, the easier and better everything gets.

The more I remember my wholeness and that I have all I need for the most glorious life, the more glorious my life becomes.

Your job is to love and accept the very things about you that you think exclude, limit, or hinder you… and turn them into your superpowers.

What’s one thing you can do today to love and lean into ALL of who you are?

Let me know below!

And you know where to find this whole set😉

Just booked an interview with Ukrainian TV!!!😍🔥😎

Let’s f*cking gooooo🔥🔥💃🏽🔥🔥

Happy National Orgasm Day!😍

Treat yourself!😘

Share with me below something that brought you pleasure today!

Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩

Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩🇪😍

My story’s going viral in Germany, Austria, Croatia, and Switzerland right now, and I am tickled pink!

I shared on the radio interview that the first time I went viral, it was an emotional roller coaster!

The fans came out, yes, as well as the haters, and I was overwhelmed by the huge jump in my income and following… and felt super vulnerable in being so globally known/exposed.

But now, with this being the 4th time going viral, it feels normal, it feels safe, it feels GOOD.

I’m grateful to reach so many people.
I’m grateful to inspire so many people.
I’m grateful to even trigger some people.

It’s all an invitation to go even deeper, to uncover our own preconceived ideas, beliefs, and values and find which ones are true and beautiful… and which ones are fear-and-judgment-based.

It’s an invitation to become an even more beautiful version of us.

And I am honored to be part of that process.☺️

Thank you @radio_hashtagplus for having me today!

And greetings to all my new European followers!🥰 So grateful to have you here!!!

📸: @riccardo.constant

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself. I

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself.

I didn’t even know what that meant.

All I knew about money was that you had to earn it through a traditional job, unless you were one of the ‘lucky’ humans who somehow had the secret to making lots of money in non-traditional ways.

I didn’t view myself as lucky.

I viewed myself as the opposite.

Because no matter how hard I worked, I still never had enough money.

But now?

Now I make more money during a livestream than I used to make in a month.

Now I make in a few hours what used to take me 30-45 days to earn.

And while it’s my new normal, it still puts me in awe every time.

Because it’s so different from where I was just a few years ago, which was:

- having my card declined at the grocery store

- buying food for my babies with food stamps

- having a non-profit organization for low-income families pay for my kiddos’ birthday parties

- borrowing money from friends and family to pay our monthly bills

But even with all that, I didn't let it stop me.

I didn’t let my current circumstances or the f*cking patriarchy or all the queerphobia stop me from rising up and taking my place.

I instead stepped into my power and claimed what was ultimately true:

I am worthy of it all, and I get to have it all.

Period.

That truth is what kept me going all these years, through all the uncertainty, all the bumps along the way, all the crazy big investments I made into myself, all.of.it.

I stayed the course.
And here I am.

Everything I do and share is to help you see what is possible for YOU.

- To plant the seed of possibility within you and water it until it's in full bloom in your life.

- To fan into flame the fire of greatness with you.

- To calibrate you to a new frequency that leads to new results in your life.

- To help you... have it all.

If that is what you're ready for, then hit that life coaching link below.

I got you.

(Which photo do you like better - 1 or 2?🤩)

My livestreams are magical. I don’t know exactl

My livestreams are magical.

I don’t know exactly how it happens but every time, it’s like stepping through a portal.

A portal where next-level love, energy, hotness, erotica, and laughter meld together into one euphoric experience.

It takes my breath away, blows my fans away, and makes it something you never forget.

If you haven’t experienced one of my 0F livestreams before, today’s the day.

I’m going LIVE in 3 hours (6pm PST / 9pm EST) and HIGHLY recommend you being there.

Plus I threw in a discount that’s only good for today.😘

I got you!
And I’m ready for you!

Hit that l!nk in my b!o!

So excited to have you!😍

📸: @jsmithrevealed

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and had a blast!🎄🤩

So grateful for amazing friends who do amazing work in the world who host amazing events and love people in amazing ways.❤️

My life feels like a fairytale most of the time and this weekend was no exception!!😍

Life gets to be everything you imagine it to be.

Don’t settle.
Don’t give up.
Don’t hold back.

Love yourself enough to give yourself the life of your dreams.

You’re worth it.❤️💃🏽❤️

Thank you @elissamwilliams and @alyssaloving for hosting! What a magical night!🌟

P.S. Hosting a livestream tomorrow evening on my private site! It’s going to be SUCH an amazing time! Sign up in my bio!!🤩🔥

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I ha

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I have!

Where I make between $30,000 and $100,000 a month!

Where I live in a million dollar home!

Where I have an amazing team working for me!

Where I get to take my babies on all kinds of trips!

Where I no longer have to say no because of money!

To me, that is freedom.
That is joy.
That is peace.
That is abundance.

And as I continue to say yes to my heart’s desires, the more beautiful my life becomes.

I trust myself.
I love myself.
I believe in myself.

And my life responds to my energy!

Life loves me!
Money loves me!
Success loves me!
Love loves me!

I’ve fully surrendered to my magic, my power, my purpose. Of course my life gets better.🤩

But it started with me taking a leap of faith for me, going all in on me, betting on me… even when it was crazy, didn’t make sense, and people would have been horrified had they known some of the early decisions I made to get where I am today… and it’s paid off a hundredfold!

Your job is to deeply trust yourself, take any and all inspired action you feel led to take, block out any and all outside opinions/fears/judgments, and TO NOT QUIT.

Not quitting is key.

If you quit, you won’t make it.
If you don’t quit, you WILL make it.

It’s that simple.

Not saying it’s easy.

It’s very tempting to quit when things don’t look like they’re working, but good god, I’m so glad I didn’t quit!

- Even when family thought I was crazy

- Even when we had less money than we were spending

- Even when my investments weren’t giving me a return as quickly as I had liked

- Even when my marriage fell apart

- Even when I became a single mother of three

I.didn’t.quit.

I stayed the course, and here I motherfucking am.

You’ve got this.
You’re going to make it.
Do not quit.

Love you!!

(Someone asked in a fb group of a time when you had no money and still managed to make it.

And that question is what inspired this post. I hope it inspires you and gives you permission to make the decisions you need to make so you can get where you know you’re meant to be.❤️ (Part 2 of 2)

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I’m competitive AF. I remember one time playing

I’m competitive AF.

I remember one time playing catch with a football with a guy I had recently met and when he caught the ball I threw to him, I then tackled him to the ground to try to get it back. He died laughing.😂 And I realized then that maybe you’re not supposed to tackle someone you just met… but that’s just how I roll.😄(and lo and behold, that man would later become my husband😆, {now ex-husband😁}).

Whether it’s throwing a football, playing ping pong, or a game of cards, I am absolutely determined to crush my opponent.😅

What’s so funny is that the same competitive edge that comes out during games… comes out in the way that I live life.

In the way that I drive🙈
In the way that I run my business😎
In the way that I make my decisions😏

I move with speed, tenacity, vision, and intention.

What looks magical on the outside is the result of the intentions I’ve made on the inside.

What looks easy to others is the result of me refusing to give up, even when the odds stood against me.

The very competitive edge I had in me as a kid is the very thing that keeps me winning at life*.

(*Without the whole crushing-my-opponent vibe. There’s no one to crush, no need to exploit, no reason to be unethical. You can rise up and win from a place of clean, loving energy, intentions, and decisions. Remember that).

And I love that.

I love seeing how our quirkiness from childhood often ends up being the most magical thing about us.

The more I love me, the more I lean into my wiring, the easier and better everything gets.

The more I remember my wholeness and that I have all I need for the most glorious life, the more glorious my life becomes.

Your job is to love and accept the very things about you that you think exclude, limit, or hinder you… and turn them into your superpowers.

What’s one thing you can do today to love and lean into ALL of who you are?

Let me know below!

And you know where to find this whole set😉

Just booked an interview with Ukrainian TV!!!😍🔥😎

Let’s f*cking gooooo🔥🔥💃🏽🔥🔥

Happy National Orgasm Day!😍

Treat yourself!😘

Share with me below something that brought you pleasure today!

Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩

Just wrapped up a radio interview in Germany!!🇩🇪😍

My story’s going viral in Germany, Austria, Croatia, and Switzerland right now, and I am tickled pink!

I shared on the radio interview that the first time I went viral, it was an emotional roller coaster!

The fans came out, yes, as well as the haters, and I was overwhelmed by the huge jump in my income and following… and felt super vulnerable in being so globally known/exposed.

But now, with this being the 4th time going viral, it feels normal, it feels safe, it feels GOOD.

I’m grateful to reach so many people.
I’m grateful to inspire so many people.
I’m grateful to even trigger some people.

It’s all an invitation to go even deeper, to uncover our own preconceived ideas, beliefs, and values and find which ones are true and beautiful… and which ones are fear-and-judgment-based.

It’s an invitation to become an even more beautiful version of us.

And I am honored to be part of that process.☺️

Thank you @radio_hashtagplus for having me today!

And greetings to all my new European followers!🥰 So grateful to have you here!!!

📸: @riccardo.constant

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself. I

I didn’t always know how to monetize myself.

I didn’t even know what that meant.

All I knew about money was that you had to earn it through a traditional job, unless you were one of the ‘lucky’ humans who somehow had the secret to making lots of money in non-traditional ways.

I didn’t view myself as lucky.

I viewed myself as the opposite.

Because no matter how hard I worked, I still never had enough money.

But now?

Now I make more money during a livestream than I used to make in a month.

Now I make in a few hours what used to take me 30-45 days to earn.

And while it’s my new normal, it still puts me in awe every time.

Because it’s so different from where I was just a few years ago, which was:

- having my card declined at the grocery store

- buying food for my babies with food stamps

- having a non-profit organization for low-income families pay for my kiddos’ birthday parties

- borrowing money from friends and family to pay our monthly bills

But even with all that, I didn't let it stop me.

I didn’t let my current circumstances or the f*cking patriarchy or all the queerphobia stop me from rising up and taking my place.

I instead stepped into my power and claimed what was ultimately true:

I am worthy of it all, and I get to have it all.

Period.

That truth is what kept me going all these years, through all the uncertainty, all the bumps along the way, all the crazy big investments I made into myself, all.of.it.

I stayed the course.
And here I am.

Everything I do and share is to help you see what is possible for YOU.

- To plant the seed of possibility within you and water it until it's in full bloom in your life.

- To fan into flame the fire of greatness with you.

- To calibrate you to a new frequency that leads to new results in your life.

- To help you... have it all.

If that is what you're ready for, then hit that life coaching link below.

I got you.

(Which photo do you like better - 1 or 2?🤩)

My livestreams are magical. I don’t know exactl

My livestreams are magical.

I don’t know exactly how it happens but every time, it’s like stepping through a portal.

A portal where next-level love, energy, hotness, erotica, and laughter meld together into one euphoric experience.

It takes my breath away, blows my fans away, and makes it something you never forget.

If you haven’t experienced one of my 0F livestreams before, today’s the day.

I’m going LIVE in 3 hours (6pm PST / 9pm EST) and HIGHLY recommend you being there.

Plus I threw in a discount that’s only good for today.😘

I got you!
And I’m ready for you!

Hit that l!nk in my b!o!

So excited to have you!😍

📸: @jsmithrevealed

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and

Went to a Christmas in July party this weekend and had a blast!🎄🤩

So grateful for amazing friends who do amazing work in the world who host amazing events and love people in amazing ways.❤️

My life feels like a fairytale most of the time and this weekend was no exception!!😍

Life gets to be everything you imagine it to be.

Don’t settle.
Don’t give up.
Don’t hold back.

Love yourself enough to give yourself the life of your dreams.

You’re worth it.❤️💃🏽❤️

Thank you @elissamwilliams and @alyssaloving for hosting! What a magical night!🌟

P.S. Hosting a livestream tomorrow evening on my private site! It’s going to be SUCH an amazing time! Sign up in my bio!!🤩🔥

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I ha

And it’s ALL brought me to the magical life I have!

Where I make between $30,000 and $100,000 a month!

Where I live in a million dollar home!

Where I have an amazing team working for me!

Where I get to take my babies on all kinds of trips!

Where I no longer have to say no because of money!

To me, that is freedom.
That is joy.
That is peace.
That is abundance.

And as I continue to say yes to my heart’s desires, the more beautiful my life becomes.

I trust myself.
I love myself.
I believe in myself.

And my life responds to my energy!

Life loves me!
Money loves me!
Success loves me!
Love loves me!

I’ve fully surrendered to my magic, my power, my purpose. Of course my life gets better.🤩

But it started with me taking a leap of faith for me, going all in on me, betting on me… even when it was crazy, didn’t make sense, and people would have been horrified had they known some of the early decisions I made to get where I am today… and it’s paid off a hundredfold!

Your job is to deeply trust yourself, take any and all inspired action you feel led to take, block out any and all outside opinions/fears/judgments, and TO NOT QUIT.

Not quitting is key.

If you quit, you won’t make it.
If you don’t quit, you WILL make it.

It’s that simple.

Not saying it’s easy.

It’s very tempting to quit when things don’t look like they’re working, but good god, I’m so glad I didn’t quit!

- Even when family thought I was crazy

- Even when we had less money than we were spending

- Even when my investments weren’t giving me a return as quickly as I had liked

- Even when my marriage fell apart

- Even when I became a single mother of three

I.didn’t.quit.

I stayed the course, and here I motherfucking am.

You’ve got this.
You’re going to make it.
Do not quit.

Love you!!

(Someone asked in a fb group of a time when you had no money and still managed to make it.

And that question is what inspired this post. I hope it inspires you and gives you permission to make the decisions you need to make so you can get where you know you’re meant to be.❤️ (Part 2 of 2)

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© 2021 Nikole Mitchell. Site by Micah J. Murray.

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell.
Site by Micah J. Murray.