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I am in tears. You know when you have those momen

I am in tears.

You know when you have those moments that just stop you in your tracks and you find yourself mesmerized by the life you’re living?

That what you’re experiencing was what you once prayed for?

Yeah, I’m having one of those moments.

It’s funny what causes us to stop in our tracks.

I move fast and have really big and audacious goals so it has to take something pretty big or pretty unexpected to catch me off guard and have me stop in my tracks.

That happened last night/this morning.

I woke up to my IG hitting 200,000 followers overnight!!!😮❤️😭❤️

I didn’t hustle for it.
I didn’t try to make it happen.

It just… happened… while I was sleeping.👀🙌🏾🥰

And that has really caused me to pause and take this in.💞

What makes it even more magical is that exactly one year ago last night, my IG hit 100,000 followers.😮

There’s gotta be some magic in there somewhere!😉💫🔮

It’s true: the size of your following isn’t everything.

It doesn’t determine your worth or value in any way.

But it sure does mean a lot when you know you’re meant for a bigger impact and a global audience.

It means even more when you couldn’t hit 1,000 followers to save your life for 7 YEARS.😅

That’s right.

For 7 years, my IG following hovered right around 900 people. (Shout out in the comments below if you’re one of the OG!!!)

And even then, I knew I was meant to reach more people.

So to be here, with you, with us, moves me to tears.

I do not take it for granted that you follow me😍, read my long ass copy😅😆, heart my photos🥰, share my posts💞, tag me in stories🤩.

That you would let me take up a small part of your world means more to me than I can put into words.❤️

So thank you.
From the bottom of my heart.

For letting me speak into your life, plant hope in your heart, bring a smile to your face, and maybe a bulge to your pants😜.

I am grateful for you.
And I’m excited to keep growing alongside of you!!!

Cheers to this amazing community and to our dreams coming true!!🥳

📸: @happiertrigger

I used to preach sermons, now I get paid to take o

I used to preach sermons, now I get paid to take off my clothes.

And I’ve come to find that s*x work and pastoral work have more in common than we realize.

We are raised in a world that likes to make things either/or. Either something is good or bad, right or wrong, black or white. We are left feeling torn between two choices when we know there must be a better option.

I’m a preacher-turned-top-Only-F@ns-model where I make more money in one month than I used to make in a year. And I live in “the middle”.

I live where s*xuality and spirituality collide, where faith and fetishes meet, where self expression and s*xual fulfillment come together (no pun intended;).

My private site is the most incredible space where both my fans and myself get to bring our whole selves to the table, with no part of ourselves being excluded.

It is deeply healing and liberating.

For far too long, people have had to choose either their spirituality or their s*xuality, and it’s left people feeling disconnected, disillusioned, and disappointed. Because we are not one-dimensional!

We are spiritual and s*xual beings who were designed to live integrated, whole lives. When we are forced to pick only one part of ourselves, we end up feeling fragmented and frustrated. This is why the work I do is so powerful. It helps fill the need for spaces where all parts of ourselves are welcome.

I have been surprised and delighted to find that a lot of the skills I used in the church are the same ones I use in my adult work.

There is a hunger in humans to be seen, known, and loved. In my church, we sought to meet those needs with social gatherings, family activities, and a bond over similar religious beliefs. In my adult work, I seek to meet those needs with an emotional connection, ongoing conversation, and customized content.

In both situations, I am seeking to meet that hunger within them: for them to be seen, known, and loved. To me that is holy work. Work that changes lives.

(New article written by me! Finish reading at the link in my bio!)

@salty.world

We are born perfectly programmed for greatness. A

We are born perfectly programmed for greatness.

As we grow older, we learn social cues, habits, and patterns from family and friends and media.

And we quickly find our place in the world long before we even understand what that means.

Before we know it, we’re trying to blend in, not ruffle feathers, people-please, and shrink so that others don’t feel uncomfortable.

All of these were survival tactics as children but if left unaddressed, they become our day-to-day habits in our adult life.

This is why among the top 10 regrets of the dying are these 2:

- I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

- I wish I pursued my dreams and aspirations.

We become so busy trying to be who we think others need us to be that we never actually become who we came here to be, much less fulfill our dreams and aspirations!

I don’t want that to be true for you!

I want you to live a life that is true to who you are!

I want you to do what you came here to do!

I want you to feel so grounded, so confident, so embodied that all you attract is love and support, and naysayers naurallly fall to the wayside.

Because here’s the truth:

It’s safe to be you.

When you’ve spent so much time trying to be a lesser version of yourself, trying to make yourself palatable, you end up buying into the story that if you are the fullest expression of yourself, bad shit is going to happen.

When the exact opposite is true!

Since becoming the fullest expression of me, my life has only gotten more magical!

It’s time to drop the survival tactics you learned as a child and step into a life that HONORS you, serves you, and powerfully supports you in your rising.

You didn’t come here to survive.

You came here to THRIVE, to create, to express, to revel in all that life has to offer you.

Let yourself be the fullest express of yourself.

Say what you want, wear what you want, do what you want.

You don’t owe anyone your old self for a moment longer.

As @glennondoyle says, impose yourself on the world and the world will adjust.😘

Let me know below if this speaks to you!

Love you!

This whole set just dropped😍🔥 You know wher

This whole set just dropped😍🔥

You know where to find the l!nk😘

Coming out was one of the best gifts I gave myself

Coming out was one of the best gifts I gave myself… and the world.

I didn’t know I was queer until I was 32.

When I finally did realize my queerness, memories from my childhood came rushing back.

- Moments where I crushed on my girlfriends.

- Moments wishing I was gay so I could date my gay friends.

- That particular moment when I thought the @hanson sisters were so hot. Then I learned they were brothers and I still thought they were hot.😆

When I realized I was pansexual, I felt relieved to finally have a word to name what I had felt all those years.

I was also terrified because I knew I’d lose loved ones for no longer being straight.

So I looked to as many people as I could who had gone before me… who had come out as queer… and who were even happier as a result.

Their lives fueled my hope… that maybe someday I too could come out and be happier on the other side.

In early 2017, I got a rainbow tree of life tattoo… as a promise to myself to come out someday. And to always remember that a life rooted love is always better than a life rooted in fear.

It would be in October later that year that I would come out publicly, and as scared as I was, it was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

Fast forward 4 years and I am the happiest I have ever been.

I am so grateful to be part of the LGBTQ+ community and part of what makes this world so magical.🌈😍

So for those of you who are in the closet, I send you all my love. I know it’s not safe for everyone to come out and it’s important to me that you know you are real, valid, and so deeply loved… as you are and where you are. I see you and celebrate you.☺️🎉

For those of you just coming out, I celebrate you too. You’re stepping into a whole new world and I know there can be lots of trepidation. Grab hands with those of us who’ve gone before you. We’ve got you… and we’re with you every step of the way.🥰

Happy National Coming Out Day to all my gorgeous queeroes.

The world is lucky to have us.😘

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

📸: @happiertrigger

I heard a pumpkin a day keeps the goblins away, so

I heard a pumpkin a day keeps the goblins away, so here are a few pumpkins for you🎃😉🎃

Got a bunch of Halloween outfits for my 0F so be sure to subscribe to get the inside scoop!😜

L!nk in bio!😍

Hey you 😏 Don’t forget to follow my only bac

Hey you 😏

Don’t forget to follow my only backup account @nikolemitchellofficial 🔥😘🖤

P.S. Being a mom of 3 guarantees your mirrors never remain clean. So enjoy this true-to-life speckled mirror😄

I’m going live today at 1pm PST / 4pm EST to spi

I’m going live today at 1pm PST / 4pm EST to spill the beans on my first s*x party!!!😍🔥

I’ll be going live in my 0F so if haven’t joined already, hit that l!nk in my bio to join me!!🥰

So excited to have this convo with you!🤩🔥😛

Also… photo 1 or 2?😍

📸: @rvmphoto

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I am in tears. You know when you have those momen

I am in tears.

You know when you have those moments that just stop you in your tracks and you find yourself mesmerized by the life you’re living?

That what you’re experiencing was what you once prayed for?

Yeah, I’m having one of those moments.

It’s funny what causes us to stop in our tracks.

I move fast and have really big and audacious goals so it has to take something pretty big or pretty unexpected to catch me off guard and have me stop in my tracks.

That happened last night/this morning.

I woke up to my IG hitting 200,000 followers overnight!!!😮❤️😭❤️

I didn’t hustle for it.
I didn’t try to make it happen.

It just… happened… while I was sleeping.👀🙌🏾🥰

And that has really caused me to pause and take this in.💞

What makes it even more magical is that exactly one year ago last night, my IG hit 100,000 followers.😮

There’s gotta be some magic in there somewhere!😉💫🔮

It’s true: the size of your following isn’t everything.

It doesn’t determine your worth or value in any way.

But it sure does mean a lot when you know you’re meant for a bigger impact and a global audience.

It means even more when you couldn’t hit 1,000 followers to save your life for 7 YEARS.😅

That’s right.

For 7 years, my IG following hovered right around 900 people. (Shout out in the comments below if you’re one of the OG!!!)

And even then, I knew I was meant to reach more people.

So to be here, with you, with us, moves me to tears.

I do not take it for granted that you follow me😍, read my long ass copy😅😆, heart my photos🥰, share my posts💞, tag me in stories🤩.

That you would let me take up a small part of your world means more to me than I can put into words.❤️

So thank you.
From the bottom of my heart.

For letting me speak into your life, plant hope in your heart, bring a smile to your face, and maybe a bulge to your pants😜.

I am grateful for you.
And I’m excited to keep growing alongside of you!!!

Cheers to this amazing community and to our dreams coming true!!🥳

📸: @happiertrigger

I used to preach sermons, now I get paid to take o

I used to preach sermons, now I get paid to take off my clothes.

And I’ve come to find that s*x work and pastoral work have more in common than we realize.

We are raised in a world that likes to make things either/or. Either something is good or bad, right or wrong, black or white. We are left feeling torn between two choices when we know there must be a better option.

I’m a preacher-turned-top-Only-F@ns-model where I make more money in one month than I used to make in a year. And I live in “the middle”.

I live where s*xuality and spirituality collide, where faith and fetishes meet, where self expression and s*xual fulfillment come together (no pun intended;).

My private site is the most incredible space where both my fans and myself get to bring our whole selves to the table, with no part of ourselves being excluded.

It is deeply healing and liberating.

For far too long, people have had to choose either their spirituality or their s*xuality, and it’s left people feeling disconnected, disillusioned, and disappointed. Because we are not one-dimensional!

We are spiritual and s*xual beings who were designed to live integrated, whole lives. When we are forced to pick only one part of ourselves, we end up feeling fragmented and frustrated. This is why the work I do is so powerful. It helps fill the need for spaces where all parts of ourselves are welcome.

I have been surprised and delighted to find that a lot of the skills I used in the church are the same ones I use in my adult work.

There is a hunger in humans to be seen, known, and loved. In my church, we sought to meet those needs with social gatherings, family activities, and a bond over similar religious beliefs. In my adult work, I seek to meet those needs with an emotional connection, ongoing conversation, and customized content.

In both situations, I am seeking to meet that hunger within them: for them to be seen, known, and loved. To me that is holy work. Work that changes lives.

(New article written by me! Finish reading at the link in my bio!)

@salty.world

We are born perfectly programmed for greatness. A

We are born perfectly programmed for greatness.

As we grow older, we learn social cues, habits, and patterns from family and friends and media.

And we quickly find our place in the world long before we even understand what that means.

Before we know it, we’re trying to blend in, not ruffle feathers, people-please, and shrink so that others don’t feel uncomfortable.

All of these were survival tactics as children but if left unaddressed, they become our day-to-day habits in our adult life.

This is why among the top 10 regrets of the dying are these 2:

- I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

- I wish I pursued my dreams and aspirations.

We become so busy trying to be who we think others need us to be that we never actually become who we came here to be, much less fulfill our dreams and aspirations!

I don’t want that to be true for you!

I want you to live a life that is true to who you are!

I want you to do what you came here to do!

I want you to feel so grounded, so confident, so embodied that all you attract is love and support, and naysayers naurallly fall to the wayside.

Because here’s the truth:

It’s safe to be you.

When you’ve spent so much time trying to be a lesser version of yourself, trying to make yourself palatable, you end up buying into the story that if you are the fullest expression of yourself, bad shit is going to happen.

When the exact opposite is true!

Since becoming the fullest expression of me, my life has only gotten more magical!

It’s time to drop the survival tactics you learned as a child and step into a life that HONORS you, serves you, and powerfully supports you in your rising.

You didn’t come here to survive.

You came here to THRIVE, to create, to express, to revel in all that life has to offer you.

Let yourself be the fullest express of yourself.

Say what you want, wear what you want, do what you want.

You don’t owe anyone your old self for a moment longer.

As @glennondoyle says, impose yourself on the world and the world will adjust.😘

Let me know below if this speaks to you!

Love you!

This whole set just dropped😍🔥 You know wher

This whole set just dropped😍🔥

You know where to find the l!nk😘

Coming out was one of the best gifts I gave myself

Coming out was one of the best gifts I gave myself… and the world.

I didn’t know I was queer until I was 32.

When I finally did realize my queerness, memories from my childhood came rushing back.

- Moments where I crushed on my girlfriends.

- Moments wishing I was gay so I could date my gay friends.

- That particular moment when I thought the @hanson sisters were so hot. Then I learned they were brothers and I still thought they were hot.😆

When I realized I was pansexual, I felt relieved to finally have a word to name what I had felt all those years.

I was also terrified because I knew I’d lose loved ones for no longer being straight.

So I looked to as many people as I could who had gone before me… who had come out as queer… and who were even happier as a result.

Their lives fueled my hope… that maybe someday I too could come out and be happier on the other side.

In early 2017, I got a rainbow tree of life tattoo… as a promise to myself to come out someday. And to always remember that a life rooted love is always better than a life rooted in fear.

It would be in October later that year that I would come out publicly, and as scared as I was, it was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

Fast forward 4 years and I am the happiest I have ever been.

I am so grateful to be part of the LGBTQ+ community and part of what makes this world so magical.🌈😍

So for those of you who are in the closet, I send you all my love. I know it’s not safe for everyone to come out and it’s important to me that you know you are real, valid, and so deeply loved… as you are and where you are. I see you and celebrate you.☺️🎉

For those of you just coming out, I celebrate you too. You’re stepping into a whole new world and I know there can be lots of trepidation. Grab hands with those of us who’ve gone before you. We’ve got you… and we’re with you every step of the way.🥰

Happy National Coming Out Day to all my gorgeous queeroes.

The world is lucky to have us.😘

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

📸: @happiertrigger

I heard a pumpkin a day keeps the goblins away, so

I heard a pumpkin a day keeps the goblins away, so here are a few pumpkins for you🎃😉🎃

Got a bunch of Halloween outfits for my 0F so be sure to subscribe to get the inside scoop!😜

L!nk in bio!😍

Hey you 😏 Don’t forget to follow my only bac

Hey you 😏

Don’t forget to follow my only backup account @nikolemitchellofficial 🔥😘🖤

P.S. Being a mom of 3 guarantees your mirrors never remain clean. So enjoy this true-to-life speckled mirror😄

I’m going live today at 1pm PST / 4pm EST to spi

I’m going live today at 1pm PST / 4pm EST to spill the beans on my first s*x party!!!😍🔥

I’ll be going live in my 0F so if haven’t joined already, hit that l!nk in my bio to join me!!🥰

So excited to have this convo with you!🤩🔥😛

Also… photo 1 or 2?😍

📸: @rvmphoto

Follow on Instagram

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell. Site by Micah J. Murray.

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell.
Site by Micah J. Murray.