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When I met Justin Hartley last week, I floated on When I met Justin Hartley last week, I floated on cloud 9 all weekend long.

It could have easily been mistaken as a big crush (I mean, he is hot and I’d totally hit that😄) but that wasn’t the reason.

I have dreamt of being a celebrity ever since I was a little girl. But for most of my life, Justin Hartley and I were in totally different galaxies.

He was hot, famous, and rich.

I was… none of those.

There was not a world where we both occupied the same space.

Until that Saturday night.

Seeing him just two people away at the bar, I had two reactions:

One was, “Holy sht, I know who that is!”

I’m pretty uncultured and don’t know most celebrities, so to even recognize one and know who it was was a miracle in and of itself.😆

My second reaction was a flashback to my food stamp days just a few years ago when I watched This is Us religiously. Never did I feel further from Hollywood and from celebrities / fame than I did during that time.

So to be there next to him at a bar in LA was a calibration moment of, “Oh shit, this is who I am. This is what I'm a match for.”

What once felt as if we were galaxies apart, we were now hanging out at the same small bar. It was a moment where I felt the universe saying, This is who you are, Nikole, This is where you're going. This is where you belong. This is who you were always meant to be. These are your people. This is no longer some fantasy person from another orbit. This is YOUR orbit, and you both are in it.

It was such a surreal calibration moment, and I couldn’t believe it… and yet I could.

The proximity to fame was a reminder to me of how far I’ve come, how close I am, and how aligned everything is.

And THAT is why I floated all weekend long.

(Though I am totally available for a make out sesh with him.😜)

Feeling so grateful and so excited for who I will become and what this year has in store.😍
 
📸: photo taken by my dear friend @leoneliaswu who captured this moment for me. Thank you Leon!!😘
It is my dream to help people become as wealthy as It is my dream to help people become as wealthy as they want to be.

To work through their limiting beliefs, reach new levels, and create the kind of wealth that shouldn’t have been possible in their lifetime.

And I don’t want anyone left behind.

Monetize You Sh*t is a portal into the wealth creation conversation for those who want it.

You may not be where you want to be yet but you can SEE yourself there. You FEEL the possibility alive within you. You KNOW where you’re meant to be.

You may not have the details figured out yet, and that’s okay!

The clarity will come.
The concrete steps will show up.

But they can’t show up as long as you’re at a standstill.

MYS is an invitation to take that step even before you see the path.

One of my favorite scenes from Raiders of the Lost Ark is when Harrison Ford is being chased down and he comes to a chasm. 

There is no way forward.

If he leaps, he will not make it to the other side.

But with people hot on his tail and no way back, he HAS to step forward.

With so much fear but with no other option, he takes a step into the chasm… and a step appears.

The whole path didn’t immediately appear.

WIth each step he still wasn’t sure if the next step would appear but it did.

Every.damn.time.

MYS is your invitation to take that next step. Even when you’re scared. Even when you don’t have the clarity.

Because you know the clarity will come, the step WILL appear, the path WILL be made.

You belong in the money conversation.
You deserve wealth doing what you love.
You are more ready than you feel.
You are further along than you think.

If you’re ready to enter the portal and come out on the other side revitalized, energized, and monetized, I would love to have you.

And if you know someone where you SEE their potential, you feel it DRIPPING from their essence, would you let them know about this opportunity?

I want anyone who wants wealth to have it… and I want them to have it being true to who they are and doing what they love.

If you feel led to join, I’d love to have you! We start Wednesday.☺️

📸: just dropped this set!😍 thanks to @texasthighs for the boots & backdrop!
It’s more than monetizing who you are. It’s m It’s more than monetizing who you are.

It’s monetizing the decisions you make.

This is what I wish I knew in the beginning.

Monetizing who you are is one thing.

Monetizing your decisions is another.

Money likes clean energy, a clear knowing, a solid foundation.

Money is harder to come by when we constantly question ourselves, hem and haw over decisions, and delay taking action with our knowing.

Monetize Your Sh*t is about having the ability - and the confidence - to monetize who you are.

It takes a look at what you love doing, what you’re naturally good at, and putting a price tag on it.

Beyond that it’s looking at resistance you may have towards letting money be easy, rewiring the way you think about money, and becoming such a clean match that it makes it easy for money to find you.

I want you to do what you love.

I want you to make money doing what you love.

More than that, I want you to know how to let all your decisions be money-making decisions.

Monetize Your Sh*t is so healing because it frees you from the paradigm of trying to get it just right.

Making bank isn’t about getting right as it is about getting clear, getting clean (energy), and making money moves.

This is what we’ll be covering inside MYS. I’d love to have you.

🎥: from my stories last night. If you’re not watching my stories and want little money and mindset boosts throughout your day, I’d recommend checking them out☺️
I was looking for a store in the Dallas airport to I was looking for a store in the Dallas airport to buy gifts for my kids when an employee pointed me towards a hole in the wall store at the very end of the walkway.

With how it was set it up, it looked closed off and you could tell most people didn’t know they could shop in there.

So when I walked in, there was only one other person in there, and the older gentleman at the register was bright and cheery and chatty with that one customer.

I smiled - I love bright and cheerful people and I have a soft spot for older people.

I picked out a few gifts for my kiddos and went to the register.

The older gentleman greeted me cheerfully, asking where I was flying to, what brought me to Texas, how many kids I have, and if I’d return (I said yes! Made new friends here and would love to return).

He replied with “Good, good, good, good” every time I answered his questions.

We wrapped up our convo and my purchase, and he said, “Consider this your formal invitation to come back and visit anytime,” and he pulled out a Werther’s Original from his pocket and gave it to me.

My heart swelled and a smile spread across my face.

Such a classic treat for an older person to give and it - and he himself - absolutely made my day.

Love when joy finds us in unexpected places, in unexpected ways, from unexpected people.🥰

📸: Howdy😉

Maybe I could be a cowgirl after all😏

I LOVE how these photos turned out and will be posting this set you know where!😘
Yesterday I had to change my plane tickets last mi Yesterday I had to change my plane tickets last minute, which meant I had to cancel my two previously purchased tickets and buy a new one instead.

It was one of those moments my old money stories cropped up.

It didn’t matter that my original tickets were fully refundable.

There was still this feeling of being financially irresponsible to cancel tickets day of and to buy a brand new ticket for a same-day flight.

It caused me to pause… and I had to take a deep breath, remind myself of what is really true, how money actually works… and then finish purchasing my new ticket.

This… is the money work.

It’s one thing to read books about money, take notes from a coach about money, and fantasize about how you’ll handle all the money you’ll have someday.

It’s another thing to handle money in real time, make decisions that affect your feelings about money, and do what your heart is calling you to do even when your old programming is triggered.

Money wounds are healed in the journaling and they are healed in the doing.

Yesterday an old money wound was healed (once again) in the doing.

That it’s okay to cancel last minute. It’s okay to purchase last minute. I am still safe. I am still good. There is no loss. There is no waste. Abundance is here. All is well.

Making multiple six and seven figures doesn’t happen magically.

It happens intentionally, often messily, and sometimes really, really beautifully.

It’s understanding that the undercurrent of what is happening is often where the real work lies. 

It’s being brave to believe something different, birth something new, and make room for even more.

Becoming wealthy isn’t for the faint of heart but for those who brave the path, it is so, so worth it. 

📸: @photosbyrobertocuen 

Which photo is your favorite?😍
Her: Mom, how much do I owe you? Me: $36 Her: Ok Her: Mom, how much do I owe you?

Me: $36

Her: Okay, here’s $40. You get extra credit!

A quick exchange that caused my heart to swell with awe and gratitude.

How quick she was to pay for something she had wanted and used my money for, and to give more than she needed to.

When I was her age, I hoarded what little money I had.

I remember being in high school owing my brother $1 - and I refused to give it to him.

I clung to money, so hesitant to spend it or give it, because it meant going without.

Or so I thought.

So when I found myself and my family on food stamps for 6 years in a row, I knew something had to change.

I had tried every traditional trick in the book - I took Dave Ramsey, I cut up my credit cards, I hired a financial planner, I paid only with cash - and yet I was still broke.

None of those practices resonated with me. I was doing those things because I was supposed to.

This is when I dove into the energetics of money.

It was like I was studying a language I had never heard before but was an ancient language to my soul.

I couldn’t get enough.

I went from thinking money was outside of and separate from me, something I had to work hard for, and had to jump through hoops to get…

To learning how to embody wealth, monetize who I am, and call in greater and greater amounts with greater and greater ease.

It was a completely different way of life, and I had never felt more empowered or free in my life.

It led me from living on food stamps to making 7 figures being me and doing what I love. 

^That was the key right there.

You can make 7 figures doing it other people’s way or you can make 7 figures doing it YOUR way.

That’s what I care about most!

I want money to be fun for you.
I want money to be easy for you.
I want making money to be true to you.

So I am thrilled to announce that my first money program of 2023 is now open for enrollment.🥳

Welcome to Monetize Your Sh*t, where you’ll learn how to make money being you and doing what you love!😍💰😎

I’d love to have you.😍

📸: @francoisjoseph_
What would it look for you to live fully unleashed What would it look for you to live fully unleashed?

When it comes to your body, pleasure, and business?

What would it look like for you to let go of the last threads holding you back so you can dive right in?

How would it feel to be free to say what you want, wear what you want, and charge what you want?

How would it feel to have your outsides match your insides? Your external match your internal?

How would it feel to be one of the greats, who rose tf up, and made it?

How would it feel to experience more pleasure, make more money, and become more famous?

This is what The Bundle is all about.

It’s a year of walking alongside of me, studying with me, and becoming even more unleashed with me.

It’s 11 of my programs that you get access to for 40% off that I will be teaching LIVE this year.

Can you imagine where you’ll be a year from now?

Having dove deep into pleasure, money, and fame?

I cannot wait.

Join me inside The Bundle - I can’t wait to serve and support you!

📸: moments from an Airbnb last week and from my livestream tonight😍
Going LIVE in 8 hours on my 0F😍💙 Come see w Going LIVE in 8 hours on my 0F😍💙

Come see what the fuss is all about😉

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When I met Justin Hartley last week, I floated on When I met Justin Hartley last week, I floated on cloud 9 all weekend long.

It could have easily been mistaken as a big crush (I mean, he is hot and I’d totally hit that😄) but that wasn’t the reason.

I have dreamt of being a celebrity ever since I was a little girl. But for most of my life, Justin Hartley and I were in totally different galaxies.

He was hot, famous, and rich.

I was… none of those.

There was not a world where we both occupied the same space.

Until that Saturday night.

Seeing him just two people away at the bar, I had two reactions:

One was, “Holy sht, I know who that is!”

I’m pretty uncultured and don’t know most celebrities, so to even recognize one and know who it was was a miracle in and of itself.😆

My second reaction was a flashback to my food stamp days just a few years ago when I watched This is Us religiously. Never did I feel further from Hollywood and from celebrities / fame than I did during that time.

So to be there next to him at a bar in LA was a calibration moment of, “Oh shit, this is who I am. This is what I'm a match for.”

What once felt as if we were galaxies apart, we were now hanging out at the same small bar. It was a moment where I felt the universe saying, This is who you are, Nikole, This is where you're going. This is where you belong. This is who you were always meant to be. These are your people. This is no longer some fantasy person from another orbit. This is YOUR orbit, and you both are in it.

It was such a surreal calibration moment, and I couldn’t believe it… and yet I could.

The proximity to fame was a reminder to me of how far I’ve come, how close I am, and how aligned everything is.

And THAT is why I floated all weekend long.

(Though I am totally available for a make out sesh with him.😜)

Feeling so grateful and so excited for who I will become and what this year has in store.😍
 
📸: photo taken by my dear friend @leoneliaswu who captured this moment for me. Thank you Leon!!😘
It is my dream to help people become as wealthy as It is my dream to help people become as wealthy as they want to be.

To work through their limiting beliefs, reach new levels, and create the kind of wealth that shouldn’t have been possible in their lifetime.

And I don’t want anyone left behind.

Monetize You Sh*t is a portal into the wealth creation conversation for those who want it.

You may not be where you want to be yet but you can SEE yourself there. You FEEL the possibility alive within you. You KNOW where you’re meant to be.

You may not have the details figured out yet, and that’s okay!

The clarity will come.
The concrete steps will show up.

But they can’t show up as long as you’re at a standstill.

MYS is an invitation to take that step even before you see the path.

One of my favorite scenes from Raiders of the Lost Ark is when Harrison Ford is being chased down and he comes to a chasm. 

There is no way forward.

If he leaps, he will not make it to the other side.

But with people hot on his tail and no way back, he HAS to step forward.

With so much fear but with no other option, he takes a step into the chasm… and a step appears.

The whole path didn’t immediately appear.

WIth each step he still wasn’t sure if the next step would appear but it did.

Every.damn.time.

MYS is your invitation to take that next step. Even when you’re scared. Even when you don’t have the clarity.

Because you know the clarity will come, the step WILL appear, the path WILL be made.

You belong in the money conversation.
You deserve wealth doing what you love.
You are more ready than you feel.
You are further along than you think.

If you’re ready to enter the portal and come out on the other side revitalized, energized, and monetized, I would love to have you.

And if you know someone where you SEE their potential, you feel it DRIPPING from their essence, would you let them know about this opportunity?

I want anyone who wants wealth to have it… and I want them to have it being true to who they are and doing what they love.

If you feel led to join, I’d love to have you! We start Wednesday.☺️

📸: just dropped this set!😍 thanks to @texasthighs for the boots & backdrop!
It’s more than monetizing who you are. It’s m It’s more than monetizing who you are.

It’s monetizing the decisions you make.

This is what I wish I knew in the beginning.

Monetizing who you are is one thing.

Monetizing your decisions is another.

Money likes clean energy, a clear knowing, a solid foundation.

Money is harder to come by when we constantly question ourselves, hem and haw over decisions, and delay taking action with our knowing.

Monetize Your Sh*t is about having the ability - and the confidence - to monetize who you are.

It takes a look at what you love doing, what you’re naturally good at, and putting a price tag on it.

Beyond that it’s looking at resistance you may have towards letting money be easy, rewiring the way you think about money, and becoming such a clean match that it makes it easy for money to find you.

I want you to do what you love.

I want you to make money doing what you love.

More than that, I want you to know how to let all your decisions be money-making decisions.

Monetize Your Sh*t is so healing because it frees you from the paradigm of trying to get it just right.

Making bank isn’t about getting right as it is about getting clear, getting clean (energy), and making money moves.

This is what we’ll be covering inside MYS. I’d love to have you.

🎥: from my stories last night. If you’re not watching my stories and want little money and mindset boosts throughout your day, I’d recommend checking them out☺️
I was looking for a store in the Dallas airport to I was looking for a store in the Dallas airport to buy gifts for my kids when an employee pointed me towards a hole in the wall store at the very end of the walkway.

With how it was set it up, it looked closed off and you could tell most people didn’t know they could shop in there.

So when I walked in, there was only one other person in there, and the older gentleman at the register was bright and cheery and chatty with that one customer.

I smiled - I love bright and cheerful people and I have a soft spot for older people.

I picked out a few gifts for my kiddos and went to the register.

The older gentleman greeted me cheerfully, asking where I was flying to, what brought me to Texas, how many kids I have, and if I’d return (I said yes! Made new friends here and would love to return).

He replied with “Good, good, good, good” every time I answered his questions.

We wrapped up our convo and my purchase, and he said, “Consider this your formal invitation to come back and visit anytime,” and he pulled out a Werther’s Original from his pocket and gave it to me.

My heart swelled and a smile spread across my face.

Such a classic treat for an older person to give and it - and he himself - absolutely made my day.

Love when joy finds us in unexpected places, in unexpected ways, from unexpected people.🥰

📸: Howdy😉

Maybe I could be a cowgirl after all😏

I LOVE how these photos turned out and will be posting this set you know where!😘
Yesterday I had to change my plane tickets last mi Yesterday I had to change my plane tickets last minute, which meant I had to cancel my two previously purchased tickets and buy a new one instead.

It was one of those moments my old money stories cropped up.

It didn’t matter that my original tickets were fully refundable.

There was still this feeling of being financially irresponsible to cancel tickets day of and to buy a brand new ticket for a same-day flight.

It caused me to pause… and I had to take a deep breath, remind myself of what is really true, how money actually works… and then finish purchasing my new ticket.

This… is the money work.

It’s one thing to read books about money, take notes from a coach about money, and fantasize about how you’ll handle all the money you’ll have someday.

It’s another thing to handle money in real time, make decisions that affect your feelings about money, and do what your heart is calling you to do even when your old programming is triggered.

Money wounds are healed in the journaling and they are healed in the doing.

Yesterday an old money wound was healed (once again) in the doing.

That it’s okay to cancel last minute. It’s okay to purchase last minute. I am still safe. I am still good. There is no loss. There is no waste. Abundance is here. All is well.

Making multiple six and seven figures doesn’t happen magically.

It happens intentionally, often messily, and sometimes really, really beautifully.

It’s understanding that the undercurrent of what is happening is often where the real work lies. 

It’s being brave to believe something different, birth something new, and make room for even more.

Becoming wealthy isn’t for the faint of heart but for those who brave the path, it is so, so worth it. 

📸: @photosbyrobertocuen 

Which photo is your favorite?😍
Her: Mom, how much do I owe you? Me: $36 Her: Ok Her: Mom, how much do I owe you?

Me: $36

Her: Okay, here’s $40. You get extra credit!

A quick exchange that caused my heart to swell with awe and gratitude.

How quick she was to pay for something she had wanted and used my money for, and to give more than she needed to.

When I was her age, I hoarded what little money I had.

I remember being in high school owing my brother $1 - and I refused to give it to him.

I clung to money, so hesitant to spend it or give it, because it meant going without.

Or so I thought.

So when I found myself and my family on food stamps for 6 years in a row, I knew something had to change.

I had tried every traditional trick in the book - I took Dave Ramsey, I cut up my credit cards, I hired a financial planner, I paid only with cash - and yet I was still broke.

None of those practices resonated with me. I was doing those things because I was supposed to.

This is when I dove into the energetics of money.

It was like I was studying a language I had never heard before but was an ancient language to my soul.

I couldn’t get enough.

I went from thinking money was outside of and separate from me, something I had to work hard for, and had to jump through hoops to get…

To learning how to embody wealth, monetize who I am, and call in greater and greater amounts with greater and greater ease.

It was a completely different way of life, and I had never felt more empowered or free in my life.

It led me from living on food stamps to making 7 figures being me and doing what I love. 

^That was the key right there.

You can make 7 figures doing it other people’s way or you can make 7 figures doing it YOUR way.

That’s what I care about most!

I want money to be fun for you.
I want money to be easy for you.
I want making money to be true to you.

So I am thrilled to announce that my first money program of 2023 is now open for enrollment.🥳

Welcome to Monetize Your Sh*t, where you’ll learn how to make money being you and doing what you love!😍💰😎

I’d love to have you.😍

📸: @francoisjoseph_
What would it look for you to live fully unleashed What would it look for you to live fully unleashed?

When it comes to your body, pleasure, and business?

What would it look like for you to let go of the last threads holding you back so you can dive right in?

How would it feel to be free to say what you want, wear what you want, and charge what you want?

How would it feel to have your outsides match your insides? Your external match your internal?

How would it feel to be one of the greats, who rose tf up, and made it?

How would it feel to experience more pleasure, make more money, and become more famous?

This is what The Bundle is all about.

It’s a year of walking alongside of me, studying with me, and becoming even more unleashed with me.

It’s 11 of my programs that you get access to for 40% off that I will be teaching LIVE this year.

Can you imagine where you’ll be a year from now?

Having dove deep into pleasure, money, and fame?

I cannot wait.

Join me inside The Bundle - I can’t wait to serve and support you!

📸: moments from an Airbnb last week and from my livestream tonight😍
Going LIVE in 8 hours on my 0F😍💙 Come see w Going LIVE in 8 hours on my 0F😍💙

Come see what the fuss is all about😉

📸: 1 or 2?😍
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