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By Nikole | May 12, 2014 | 0

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You have looked at so many doors with longing, won

You have looked at so many doors
with longing,
wondering if your life lay on the other side.
For today,
choose the door
that opens to the inside.

Travel the most ancient way of all:
the path that leads you
to the center of your life.
No map
but the one you make yourself.
No provision but what you already carry
and the grace that comes to those who walk the pilgrim's way.

Speak this blessing as you set out
and watch how your rhythm slows,
the cadence of the road
drawing you into the pace that is your own.
Eat when hungry.
Rest when tired.
Listen to your dreaming.
Welcome detours
as doors deeper in.

Pray for protection.
Ask for guidance.
Offer gladness for the gifts that come,
and then
let them go.

Do not expect to return
by the same road.
Home is always by another way,
and you will know it
not by the light that waits for you

but by the star
that blazes inside you,
telling you
where you are
is holy
and you are welcome here.

- The Map You Make Yourself by Jan Richardson

///

One of my favorite poems.❤️

A beautiful reminder that you can trust yourself & your path will lead you all the way home.❤️

(P.S. My OF is on sale!!! To celebrate 100k followers and the spirit of Halloween, you can now join for only $6/mo!! Deal ends in a week so smash that link in my bio and join me inside!!😍🔥😛💋)

📸: @legendone

You aren't missing anything. You aren't lacking i

You aren't missing anything.
You aren't lacking in any way.

You are whole, equipped, and more than enough for what it is you are called to do.

The trick is believing that for yourself, even when your circumstances try to tell you a different story.

As much as you want your circumstances to be different or for someone outside of you to validate you, complete you, qualify you...

That is an INSIDE job.

The more inner work you do, the more confident, calm, and clear you get.

And where there is confidence, clarity, and certainty, THEREIN LIES YOUR DESTINY.

So if you needed a reminder today, here it is:

You are whole.
You are loved.
You are worthy.
You are ready.
You are brilliant.
You are capable.
You are called.
You can do it.

Period.

Show up to your day, life, and dreams as though that is true and it’s only a matter of time before your wildest dreams come true.

(How about this 🔥shot from @onemore.kissdear ?! Obsessed!!!

You know where to find the uncensored one 🥵 Link in my bio!)

When your critics become your clients. It is not

When your critics become your clients.

It is not your job to convince the haters.

The more you try to convince, the more they dig in.

Instead, your job is to focus on YOU... stay in your lane... and let your results speak for itself.

I’m not here to convince anyone of anything.🙅🏽‍♀️

I have no desire to do that.

I have a life to live.

Dreams to unlock.

Goals to achieve.

Manifestation miracles to call in.

Money to make.

People to meet.

I live a full life!

And I don’t give any of my time or energy to the haters, skeptics, and critics.

I stay in my lane and stay so focused on who I am and what I came here to do that that becomes convincing in and of itself!

To where people say, “Holy shit, I want to be in her orbit! I want to learn from her! I want to be able to ask her questions. I want to be mentored by her. I want to be part of her community.” And they sign up to work with me!

To where even two of my CRITICS signed up to work with me in the past month!🤯😏

One of them told me this week that when they used to watch my videos and read my posts, they would think, “She is full of crap.”😂

And now they’re like, “This is legit! You are legit!”😎

That is the power of staying in your lane.

That is the power of being convinced of yourself and what you have to offer.

You have nothing to prove but a beautiful life to live instead.

Let the beauty of your life, the fire of your truth, and the resiliency of your heart speak for you.🔥

It will bring all the right people along, even some of your critics.😉

Here’s to living an unleashed life and liberating others by liberating yourself.

XoXo.
Nikole

P.S. See more of this uncensored set on my OF! Link in bio!

And don’t forget to follow my second account! @nikolemitchellofficial

📸: @legendone

When I was broke & YEARNING for the day to be rich

When I was broke & YEARNING for the day to be rich, I kept waiting for something externally to change:

- An unknown rich relative to die & send me money (lol)

- Winning the lottery (even though I never would buy a ticket lol)

- Getting in an accident & people fundraising money for me (desperate times create some pretty desperate scenarios)

🔥That's why I was blown away when I learned that NOTHING had to change EXTERNALLY before I could absolutely & radically change my life.🔥

And I did that by:

1. Learning how I got where I was

Me being broke & miserable wasn't random nor God's will for me nor my doomed fate.
It was something I had created (aye yi yi), which meant I could UNcreate it as well! (and I obv did)

2. Forgiving everyone & their mother.

Like, literally. Anyone who had hurt me, anyone I still held a grudge against, ANYONE & EVERYONE I literally saturated in the forgiveness we all deserved. And in that forgiveness was freedom & in that freedom was wholeness... & where there is wholeness, there is wealth.

3. Manifesting the fuck out of my desires

I dropped all "oughts, shoulds, & supposed to's" & tuned into my heart's desires & not only gave them permission to breathe but declared them holy, good, & true & began to manifest them like it was my job.

4. Taking my life to the next level

I learned that you can't run out of money, joy, love, support, success, etc. So I kept raising the ceiling as I was determined to see how far I could go. And holy shit, has life gotten real good, real fast!

🤑 From making $6,000/yr (in 2017) to $60,000/yr (in 2018) to just having just had my first $100k MONTH!!!

🔥 From feeling lost & scattered to fully living out my purpose & passion

💃🏽 From living a life in fear of what others would think to living a fully embodied, fully expressed, fully empowered life

This is why I created #Unfuckwithable.

Because it's not about waiting for something externally to change.

It's about stepping into your power & actively ALLOWING the goodness, miracles, & abundance to flow into your life!

Our next call is on Monday, and I would be honored to have you in there.

Sign up in my bio!

📸: @onemore.kissdear

"They don't even live in reality." Someone said t

"They don't even live in reality."

Someone said this to me about celebrities & in that moment, I realized we needed to talk about how reality works.

There is no ONE reality.

There are an INFINITE number of realities.

And you - as the powerful creator that you are - get to CHOOSE which reality you want to live in.

This is a huge mind fuck for a lot of people.

Because most people are used to living their lives from the outside-in.

They look OUTSIDE of themselves to see what is possible.

They might even look up stats & numbers to find more evidence of what is or is not possible.

And then BASED ON THOSE EXTERNAL FACTORS, they decide what kind of life is possible & available to them.

And while you CAN create your reality that way, I'm here to tell you:

THERE IS A BETTER WAY.

One where you turn INWARD & get clear on what you WANT out of life, what that gentle whisper is saying is possible FOR YOU, & what is meant FOR YOU.

And taking that inner truth & then turning that INTO YOUR REALITY.

With this framework, it doesn't matter what the stats say.

It doesn't matter what the 'probability' is.

***You already know it's yours***

>> This is why some consultants make $30,000 a year & other consultants make MILLIONS a year.

>> This is why some actors make $100,000 a year & others make MILLIONS a year.

It's because they choose to believe in reality of their own making.

☆ A reality that is based on infinite possibilities, abundance, & more than enough.

☆ A reality that is rooted in love & worthiness & more than enoughness.

And it changes the course of their life.

THIS IS AVAILABLE TO YOU AS WELL.

>> Where others have settled, you can choose to rise.

>> Where others have given up, you can choose to move forward.

>> Where others go it alone, you can put support in place.

>> Where others think it's impossible, you demonstrate what is possible.

You have all the power within you to create ANY reality you want.

So please CHOOSE the reality you actually WANT.

Don't settle.
Don't shrink.
Don't quit.

Rise up.
Show up.
And be tenacious AF.

AND IT WILL BE YOURS.

Want support in your rising? Hit the life coaching link in my bio!

📸: @kevinwongphotography

You get to be sexy and be taken seriously.

Risqué and respected.

Playful and professional.

A model and a mother.

You get to be it all.

The fact that we were told to choose one or the other was the lie we were told all along.

We never had to choose between the two.

You get to embody ALL parts of yourself and live as a unified whole.

And you know what happens when we ALL choose to live that way?

A revolution takes place!

And it’s the very thing our world needs.

So stop buying into the lie that you can only be one-dimensional and a watered-down version of yourself.

🔥You get to be multi-faceted.

🔥You get to live unleashed.

🔥You get to express your truth.

🔥You get to be the unique expression of the Divine you came here to be.

And you get to have it all.

Not in SPITE of who you are but BECAUSE of who you are.

Stop hiding.
Start embodying
And let the world quake.😏

📸: @legendone

Oh my gosh!!! Just got off a Zoom call with two p

Oh my gosh!!!

Just got off a Zoom call with two producers who want to turn my story into a reality tv show AND movie!

One producer said, “I’ve gotten goosebumps 3 times since being on this call with you and that’s when I know I’m onto the right thing.”

And without them evening knowing that I use the word “empire” to describe what I’m building, one of the producers said to me, “We want to help you build your empire. You’re already on your way.”

And as my life coach and mastermind knows, Kris Jenner inspires the fuck out of me and that’s when the producer said, “You’re going to do even better than Kris Jenner.”

Fuck yes! That’s the energy I’m all about!

And the other producer wrapped it up with, “Whatever you’re doing, it’s working. So don’t stop doing it. Keep being you.”

Ahh!!

You guys!!

This is the power of BEING YOU.

This is the power of dropping the expectations others place on you and stepping FULLY into who you came here to be.

And only YOU know who and what that is!

So your job is to trust yourself, love yourself, and BE yourself, and it will lead you into everything that is meant for you.

Don’t settle.
Don’t shrink.
Don’t stop now.

Keep motherfucking going.
🔥🔥🔥

📸: @krazedphotography

When women learn how to please, we forget who we a

When women learn how to please, we forget who we are.

When women lose themselves, the world loses its way.

We do not need any more selfless women.

What we need right now is more women who are full of themselves.

A woman who is full of only herself no longer internalizes the world’s memos and expectations.

A woman who is full of herself knows and trusts herself enough to say and do what must be done, and lets the rest burn.

- @glennondoyle

❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥

Here’s to coming home to yourself, loving yourself, and being full of yourself!

Here’s to letting yourself be rewarded for who you really are!

Here’s to living life on your terms and being the free humxn you were born to be!

And here’s to hitting 100k followers!!

Holy schmoly, you guys - we did it!!

And it’s because you beautiful souls are here.

I feel so honored, so humbled, so grateful to have you here, to share my life with you, and have your support as I build a beautiful life based on my truth.

Thank you for being so gracious.
Thank you for being so kind.
Thank you for being you.

May you know that it’s safe for you to be you, to be seen, and be everything you came here to be.

The world will adjust!

I love you and I believe in you, and if I can support you in any way, hit that life coaching link in my bio and let’s chat! I’m here to take you all the way to the top.

XoXo,
Nikole 💋

P.S. Find the nude version of this on my OF!😍 Link in my bio😘

📸: @boudoirbyjadestudios

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You have looked at so many doors with longing, won

You have looked at so many doors
with longing,
wondering if your life lay on the other side.
For today,
choose the door
that opens to the inside.

Travel the most ancient way of all:
the path that leads you
to the center of your life.
No map
but the one you make yourself.
No provision but what you already carry
and the grace that comes to those who walk the pilgrim's way.

Speak this blessing as you set out
and watch how your rhythm slows,
the cadence of the road
drawing you into the pace that is your own.
Eat when hungry.
Rest when tired.
Listen to your dreaming.
Welcome detours
as doors deeper in.

Pray for protection.
Ask for guidance.
Offer gladness for the gifts that come,
and then
let them go.

Do not expect to return
by the same road.
Home is always by another way,
and you will know it
not by the light that waits for you

but by the star
that blazes inside you,
telling you
where you are
is holy
and you are welcome here.

- The Map You Make Yourself by Jan Richardson

///

One of my favorite poems.❤️

A beautiful reminder that you can trust yourself & your path will lead you all the way home.❤️

(P.S. My OF is on sale!!! To celebrate 100k followers and the spirit of Halloween, you can now join for only $6/mo!! Deal ends in a week so smash that link in my bio and join me inside!!😍🔥😛💋)

📸: @legendone

You aren't missing anything. You aren't lacking i

You aren't missing anything.
You aren't lacking in any way.

You are whole, equipped, and more than enough for what it is you are called to do.

The trick is believing that for yourself, even when your circumstances try to tell you a different story.

As much as you want your circumstances to be different or for someone outside of you to validate you, complete you, qualify you...

That is an INSIDE job.

The more inner work you do, the more confident, calm, and clear you get.

And where there is confidence, clarity, and certainty, THEREIN LIES YOUR DESTINY.

So if you needed a reminder today, here it is:

You are whole.
You are loved.
You are worthy.
You are ready.
You are brilliant.
You are capable.
You are called.
You can do it.

Period.

Show up to your day, life, and dreams as though that is true and it’s only a matter of time before your wildest dreams come true.

(How about this 🔥shot from @onemore.kissdear ?! Obsessed!!!

You know where to find the uncensored one 🥵 Link in my bio!)

When your critics become your clients. It is not

When your critics become your clients.

It is not your job to convince the haters.

The more you try to convince, the more they dig in.

Instead, your job is to focus on YOU... stay in your lane... and let your results speak for itself.

I’m not here to convince anyone of anything.🙅🏽‍♀️

I have no desire to do that.

I have a life to live.

Dreams to unlock.

Goals to achieve.

Manifestation miracles to call in.

Money to make.

People to meet.

I live a full life!

And I don’t give any of my time or energy to the haters, skeptics, and critics.

I stay in my lane and stay so focused on who I am and what I came here to do that that becomes convincing in and of itself!

To where people say, “Holy shit, I want to be in her orbit! I want to learn from her! I want to be able to ask her questions. I want to be mentored by her. I want to be part of her community.” And they sign up to work with me!

To where even two of my CRITICS signed up to work with me in the past month!🤯😏

One of them told me this week that when they used to watch my videos and read my posts, they would think, “She is full of crap.”😂

And now they’re like, “This is legit! You are legit!”😎

That is the power of staying in your lane.

That is the power of being convinced of yourself and what you have to offer.

You have nothing to prove but a beautiful life to live instead.

Let the beauty of your life, the fire of your truth, and the resiliency of your heart speak for you.🔥

It will bring all the right people along, even some of your critics.😉

Here’s to living an unleashed life and liberating others by liberating yourself.

XoXo.
Nikole

P.S. See more of this uncensored set on my OF! Link in bio!

And don’t forget to follow my second account! @nikolemitchellofficial

📸: @legendone

When I was broke & YEARNING for the day to be rich

When I was broke & YEARNING for the day to be rich, I kept waiting for something externally to change:

- An unknown rich relative to die & send me money (lol)

- Winning the lottery (even though I never would buy a ticket lol)

- Getting in an accident & people fundraising money for me (desperate times create some pretty desperate scenarios)

🔥That's why I was blown away when I learned that NOTHING had to change EXTERNALLY before I could absolutely & radically change my life.🔥

And I did that by:

1. Learning how I got where I was

Me being broke & miserable wasn't random nor God's will for me nor my doomed fate.
It was something I had created (aye yi yi), which meant I could UNcreate it as well! (and I obv did)

2. Forgiving everyone & their mother.

Like, literally. Anyone who had hurt me, anyone I still held a grudge against, ANYONE & EVERYONE I literally saturated in the forgiveness we all deserved. And in that forgiveness was freedom & in that freedom was wholeness... & where there is wholeness, there is wealth.

3. Manifesting the fuck out of my desires

I dropped all "oughts, shoulds, & supposed to's" & tuned into my heart's desires & not only gave them permission to breathe but declared them holy, good, & true & began to manifest them like it was my job.

4. Taking my life to the next level

I learned that you can't run out of money, joy, love, support, success, etc. So I kept raising the ceiling as I was determined to see how far I could go. And holy shit, has life gotten real good, real fast!

🤑 From making $6,000/yr (in 2017) to $60,000/yr (in 2018) to just having just had my first $100k MONTH!!!

🔥 From feeling lost & scattered to fully living out my purpose & passion

💃🏽 From living a life in fear of what others would think to living a fully embodied, fully expressed, fully empowered life

This is why I created #Unfuckwithable.

Because it's not about waiting for something externally to change.

It's about stepping into your power & actively ALLOWING the goodness, miracles, & abundance to flow into your life!

Our next call is on Monday, and I would be honored to have you in there.

Sign up in my bio!

📸: @onemore.kissdear

"They don't even live in reality." Someone said t

"They don't even live in reality."

Someone said this to me about celebrities & in that moment, I realized we needed to talk about how reality works.

There is no ONE reality.

There are an INFINITE number of realities.

And you - as the powerful creator that you are - get to CHOOSE which reality you want to live in.

This is a huge mind fuck for a lot of people.

Because most people are used to living their lives from the outside-in.

They look OUTSIDE of themselves to see what is possible.

They might even look up stats & numbers to find more evidence of what is or is not possible.

And then BASED ON THOSE EXTERNAL FACTORS, they decide what kind of life is possible & available to them.

And while you CAN create your reality that way, I'm here to tell you:

THERE IS A BETTER WAY.

One where you turn INWARD & get clear on what you WANT out of life, what that gentle whisper is saying is possible FOR YOU, & what is meant FOR YOU.

And taking that inner truth & then turning that INTO YOUR REALITY.

With this framework, it doesn't matter what the stats say.

It doesn't matter what the 'probability' is.

***You already know it's yours***

>> This is why some consultants make $30,000 a year & other consultants make MILLIONS a year.

>> This is why some actors make $100,000 a year & others make MILLIONS a year.

It's because they choose to believe in reality of their own making.

☆ A reality that is based on infinite possibilities, abundance, & more than enough.

☆ A reality that is rooted in love & worthiness & more than enoughness.

And it changes the course of their life.

THIS IS AVAILABLE TO YOU AS WELL.

>> Where others have settled, you can choose to rise.

>> Where others have given up, you can choose to move forward.

>> Where others go it alone, you can put support in place.

>> Where others think it's impossible, you demonstrate what is possible.

You have all the power within you to create ANY reality you want.

So please CHOOSE the reality you actually WANT.

Don't settle.
Don't shrink.
Don't quit.

Rise up.
Show up.
And be tenacious AF.

AND IT WILL BE YOURS.

Want support in your rising? Hit the life coaching link in my bio!

📸: @kevinwongphotography

You get to be sexy and be taken seriously.

Risqué and respected.

Playful and professional.

A model and a mother.

You get to be it all.

The fact that we were told to choose one or the other was the lie we were told all along.

We never had to choose between the two.

You get to embody ALL parts of yourself and live as a unified whole.

And you know what happens when we ALL choose to live that way?

A revolution takes place!

And it’s the very thing our world needs.

So stop buying into the lie that you can only be one-dimensional and a watered-down version of yourself.

🔥You get to be multi-faceted.

🔥You get to live unleashed.

🔥You get to express your truth.

🔥You get to be the unique expression of the Divine you came here to be.

And you get to have it all.

Not in SPITE of who you are but BECAUSE of who you are.

Stop hiding.
Start embodying
And let the world quake.😏

📸: @legendone

Oh my gosh!!! Just got off a Zoom call with two p

Oh my gosh!!!

Just got off a Zoom call with two producers who want to turn my story into a reality tv show AND movie!

One producer said, “I’ve gotten goosebumps 3 times since being on this call with you and that’s when I know I’m onto the right thing.”

And without them evening knowing that I use the word “empire” to describe what I’m building, one of the producers said to me, “We want to help you build your empire. You’re already on your way.”

And as my life coach and mastermind knows, Kris Jenner inspires the fuck out of me and that’s when the producer said, “You’re going to do even better than Kris Jenner.”

Fuck yes! That’s the energy I’m all about!

And the other producer wrapped it up with, “Whatever you’re doing, it’s working. So don’t stop doing it. Keep being you.”

Ahh!!

You guys!!

This is the power of BEING YOU.

This is the power of dropping the expectations others place on you and stepping FULLY into who you came here to be.

And only YOU know who and what that is!

So your job is to trust yourself, love yourself, and BE yourself, and it will lead you into everything that is meant for you.

Don’t settle.
Don’t shrink.
Don’t stop now.

Keep motherfucking going.
🔥🔥🔥

📸: @krazedphotography

When women learn how to please, we forget who we a

When women learn how to please, we forget who we are.

When women lose themselves, the world loses its way.

We do not need any more selfless women.

What we need right now is more women who are full of themselves.

A woman who is full of only herself no longer internalizes the world’s memos and expectations.

A woman who is full of herself knows and trusts herself enough to say and do what must be done, and lets the rest burn.

- @glennondoyle

❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥

Here’s to coming home to yourself, loving yourself, and being full of yourself!

Here’s to letting yourself be rewarded for who you really are!

Here’s to living life on your terms and being the free humxn you were born to be!

And here’s to hitting 100k followers!!

Holy schmoly, you guys - we did it!!

And it’s because you beautiful souls are here.

I feel so honored, so humbled, so grateful to have you here, to share my life with you, and have your support as I build a beautiful life based on my truth.

Thank you for being so gracious.
Thank you for being so kind.
Thank you for being you.

May you know that it’s safe for you to be you, to be seen, and be everything you came here to be.

The world will adjust!

I love you and I believe in you, and if I can support you in any way, hit that life coaching link in my bio and let’s chat! I’m here to take you all the way to the top.

XoXo,
Nikole 💋

P.S. Find the nude version of this on my OF!😍 Link in my bio😘

📸: @boudoirbyjadestudios

Follow on Instagram

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Site by Micah J. Murray.

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