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This morning as I was reading from @glennondoyle’s book Untamed, I came across a section I read a year ago, in the midst of my marriage falling apart.

In her book, she writes:

“The reward for enduring hard feelings was finding my potential, my purpose, and my people. I am so grateful.”

When I read that last year as I watched my marriage disintegrate before my eyes, I was appalled. How dare she say this most painful experience would lead to my potential, purpose, and people.

But when I read it this morning? I bursted into tears.
 Because she was right.

After living through one of the hardest experiences of my life, I was ushered into a whole new level of potential and purpose, and it delivered me to my people.

I AM so grateful.

Whatever it is you’re facing, whatever it is you’re going through, I want to reassure you that everything you want and more is on the other side.

I don’t say that to overlook your pain… I say that to remind you that your pain isn’t the end of you. It doesn’t get the final say.

You are still wildly, wholly worthy of the life you want.

Not because you’ve worked hard for it, not because you’ve sacrificed for it, but because you deserve it. Period.

You’ve always deserved it.

And now you get to drop any remaining conditions that have been keeping you from getting what you want.

Because the only condition that is required to receive what you want: is that you’re alive.
 🔥Your worthiness was already established.

🔥Your goodness was already decided.

🔥Your more-than-enoughness was already declared.

👉🏾It’s time you receive it now👈🏾

I'm doing a LIVE training with my Worthiness Course students on Tuesday, and for the first time ever, I'm opening it up for you to join!

Instead of signing up for the whole course, you can join this training where we'll be diving into having-it-all NOW.

Hit the link in my bio to sign up - this crazy low price expires Monday, 5/17, at midnight PST!

Love you and can't wait to see you there!

Confession: I had just as many (negative) assumpti

Confession: I had just as many (negative) assumptions and stereotypes about the adult industry as some people have about me and the work that I do.

It wasn’t until I started doing the work that I do and meeting amazing people like @hollyrandall that I began the deep work of unpacking what I was taught about the adult industry and what was actually true.

It took a lot of inner work and support to release fear and shame around my body, sexuality, and self expression and become who I was meant to be... and it was so worth it!

I’m so free and happy and embodied and expressed, it’s hard to imagine what life was like before this.

It also gave me the incredible opportunity to meet and be interviewed by the one and only @hollyrandall.

(I get to meet the most amazing people in my line of work!)

And as I share in this podcast interview, it’s initially scary to live and speak your truth, but it is so worth it. YOU are worth it.

And there are a whole lotta people who are ready to love you for it.❤️

For those of you who don’t know Holly, I’m so excited for you to now know who she is.

She was named one of the most influential women in the adult industry and was raised by parents who were involved with the adult industry. And she has some of the best childhood stories! So be sure to hit the link in my bio to watch our full conversation.

Til then, enjoy these snippets of our conversation. They’re so good!

Love you!

P.S. You know where to find this photo uncensored!😏 Link in bio!😘

📸: @davekelleyphotography

I can’t tell you how many clients have told me t

I can’t tell you how many clients have told me their favorite part of my coaching is my opening meditation.

🔥My opening meditations are the shit🔥

Before we dive into all the things, we first remember all the things.

- We remember our Oneness with All That Is.

- We remember our unique divinity that is here for the world to see.

- We remember our power... and how we have the power to create any reality we want.

- We remember our purpose... and how we are here for a legacy, for changing lives, for something bigger than our one lifetime.

- We remember our identity of abundance and wealth as our birthright.

- We remember our worthiness... that we get to have it all because we are worthy of it all.

🔥My meditation is also a returning🔥

- A returning to our deepest and truest desires.

- A returning to the dreams we’ve carried in our hearts since we were children.

- A returning to our highest and best self who is always leading us forward.

- A returning to our wholeness and goodness that can never be extracted from us no.matter.what.

🔥My meditation is also an activation🔥

- An activation of our magic, the very things about us that draw the ideal clients, lovers, friends, opportunities to us.

- An activation of our worth, which opens the door and clears the path for that which is trying to enter our lives.

- An activation of our salvation by taking our power back and becoming the hero we’ve been waiting for.

- An activation of inspired next steps, that instead of being left confused and unclear, we get clarity and confirmation on what to do next.

- An activation of the law of correspondence, that what we create internally will be out pictured externally.

- An activation of new levels of success, fame, love, #AllTheThings.

It’s no wonder healing, revelation, upleveling, and miracles take place.

We remember, return, and activate!

It’s the fertile soil in which dreams come true!

All that before I even get to the coaching part of my calls😏

It’s available to you, too.

I have one 1:1 coaching spot open and 2 mastermind spots open.

Hit the life coaching link in my bio and let me know why you are the perfect fit!
🔥🔥🔥

📸: @statticframes

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you who mother! Wh

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you who mother!

Whether it’s your kids, other people’s kids, kids who’ve passed, fur babies, or your inner child... your mothering is valid and real and healing and changing the world... and you’re doing better than you think!

Proud of every single one of us.❤️😊💐

Let’s try that again😏 Instagram didn’t lik

Let’s try that again😏

Instagram didn’t like that photo so I drew some underwear on it to make it IG approved (even though I was wearing underwear in that photo - it’s called angles!) *swipe to see*

And you know where to find the whole set😉 Link in bio😘

Make sure to follow my backup too: @nikolemitchellofficial
❤️❤️❤️

Happy Cinco de Mayo!🇲🇽 Just dropped a 10 mi

Happy Cinco de Mayo!🇲🇽

Just dropped a 10 minute video inside my OF celebrating this day! Hit the link in my bio to watch it!😍

And as I encouraged my OF, take a few minutes to look up what Cinco de Mayo is all about.

For example, did you know Cinco de Mayo isn’t a holiday in Mexico and it’s not really celebrated there? And that Cinco de Mayo and Mexico’s Independence Day are two different things?

I didn’t until I was researching it a couple days ago!

This is why it’s so important we take time to learn and better understand cultural holidays, especially when they’re not part of our tradition or culture.

We have so much to learn from each other, and holidays like these are a great opportunity to do just that! Look up what this holiday means and tell me something you learned about it for the first time!

My toast for today:

May we love each other. Learn from each other. Be there for each other.

May we believe in ourselves when all odds seem against us. May we lean into the possibility and see what we can create.

May we allow ourselves to have the life we dream of. Because we are worthy, we are deserving, we are safe. We truly do get to have it all.

Love you!!

P.S. Check out my stories to place your vote on what you want me to teach on next - money or business! Let me know!

It’s not too late. Someone recently shared with

It’s not too late.

Someone recently shared with me their fear that it’s too late for them.

We can all relate to that… whether it’s about our age, our experience, our status, our situation… we’ve all felt the feelings of it being too late.

Here’s the thing.

It IS too late for you… if you believe that.

If that’s the story you tell yourself and you stack up all the evidence that confirms your own bias, it becomes true.

Why?

- Because you decide what is true.

- You decide what you’re available for.

- You decide what’s possible.

If you decide something is no longer possible for you, then you’re right.

Whether you’re talking about love, money, success, healing, hope… if it you believe it’s too late, you’ve decided your fate.

But what if you decided… that it’s not too late?

What if you decided… this is your moment?

What if you decided… you get to have whatever it is you want?

What if you decided… that the power lies with you?

What if you decided… all things are possible?

What if you decided… you STILL get to have it all?

What if you took 5 minutes to google people who ‘made it’ later in life… and started filling your subconscious with example after example of people getting what they want long after their ‘prime’ (whatever the fuck that means)?

Listen, the fear of it being too late is often rooted in not feeling worthy of what you want.

When the truth is, you are ALWAYS worthy of love, money, success, health, peace, freedom, happiness. Period.

It’s never too late (nor too early) to experience, call in, and multiply what you’re worthy of.

And you can do that NOW.

Mastering your worth opens the floodgates.

That’s why I love my Worthiness Workshop so much.

You’re doing the inner work… and you get outer results.

You’re going deep… so you can soar high.

You’re healing yourself… so you can heal the world.

As within, so without. Every damn time.

That’s the potential and possibility calling out to you on the other side of this workshop.

Will you join us?

Last call. Link in bio.🔥

📸: @davekelleyphotography

I used to fear getting what I want. Now I can’t

I used to fear getting what I want.

Now I can’t imagine not getting what I want.

I’ve gotten to such a solid, grounded place of feeling worthy of everything I want, that I can’t imagine a life where I don’t receive what I want.

So it doesn’t surprise me when I get what I want… or when I get unexpected upgrades… or when I’m offered steep discounts without asking.

Everything in my life keeps getting better… because I feel worthy of it, expect it, and demand it.

And that has given me one magical life.

Here’s the thing.

I didn’t get where I am today by feeling sheepish about what I want.

I don’t make the money I make by feeling squeamish in what I sell, how I sell, or how much I sell it for.

I don’t have the global impact I have by being afraid of being seen.

I don’t have the love that I do by feeling unworthy or undeserving of it.

It’s quite the opposite.

I KNOW what I want.
I feel WORTHY of what I want.
I let myself HAVE what I want.

And I don’t settle for anything less.

That’s what allowed me to go from $0 months to $10k months to $100k months.

From being afraid of what people might think of me to telling the world how to think of me.

From tolerating bullshit to having no space for that in my life.

From people who questioned who I am to people who celebrate, adore, and cherish who I am.

It’s made my heart full, my life beautiful, my passion unrivaled, my rising unstoppable.

And I’m here to take you with me.

Today is the last day to enroll for my Worthiness Workshop.

This course includes everything I wish I had known growing up.

About how worthy I am, how my desires are my birthright, how my life gets to be as magical as I imagine it to be.

My heart and soul are in this course, and I designed it in such a way that wherever you are in life - it meets you there and takes you to the next level. It’s why I return to it time and time again for my own upleveling.

Sign up in my bio!
Love you and always believing in you.

📸: @davekelleyphotography

Follow on Instagram

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This morning as I was reading from @glennondoyle’s book Untamed, I came across a section I read a year ago, in the midst of my marriage falling apart.

In her book, she writes:

“The reward for enduring hard feelings was finding my potential, my purpose, and my people. I am so grateful.”

When I read that last year as I watched my marriage disintegrate before my eyes, I was appalled. How dare she say this most painful experience would lead to my potential, purpose, and people.

But when I read it this morning? I bursted into tears.
 Because she was right.

After living through one of the hardest experiences of my life, I was ushered into a whole new level of potential and purpose, and it delivered me to my people.

I AM so grateful.

Whatever it is you’re facing, whatever it is you’re going through, I want to reassure you that everything you want and more is on the other side.

I don’t say that to overlook your pain… I say that to remind you that your pain isn’t the end of you. It doesn’t get the final say.

You are still wildly, wholly worthy of the life you want.

Not because you’ve worked hard for it, not because you’ve sacrificed for it, but because you deserve it. Period.

You’ve always deserved it.

And now you get to drop any remaining conditions that have been keeping you from getting what you want.

Because the only condition that is required to receive what you want: is that you’re alive.
 🔥Your worthiness was already established.

🔥Your goodness was already decided.

🔥Your more-than-enoughness was already declared.

👉🏾It’s time you receive it now👈🏾

I'm doing a LIVE training with my Worthiness Course students on Tuesday, and for the first time ever, I'm opening it up for you to join!

Instead of signing up for the whole course, you can join this training where we'll be diving into having-it-all NOW.

Hit the link in my bio to sign up - this crazy low price expires Monday, 5/17, at midnight PST!

Love you and can't wait to see you there!

Confession: I had just as many (negative) assumpti

Confession: I had just as many (negative) assumptions and stereotypes about the adult industry as some people have about me and the work that I do.

It wasn’t until I started doing the work that I do and meeting amazing people like @hollyrandall that I began the deep work of unpacking what I was taught about the adult industry and what was actually true.

It took a lot of inner work and support to release fear and shame around my body, sexuality, and self expression and become who I was meant to be... and it was so worth it!

I’m so free and happy and embodied and expressed, it’s hard to imagine what life was like before this.

It also gave me the incredible opportunity to meet and be interviewed by the one and only @hollyrandall.

(I get to meet the most amazing people in my line of work!)

And as I share in this podcast interview, it’s initially scary to live and speak your truth, but it is so worth it. YOU are worth it.

And there are a whole lotta people who are ready to love you for it.❤️

For those of you who don’t know Holly, I’m so excited for you to now know who she is.

She was named one of the most influential women in the adult industry and was raised by parents who were involved with the adult industry. And she has some of the best childhood stories! So be sure to hit the link in my bio to watch our full conversation.

Til then, enjoy these snippets of our conversation. They’re so good!

Love you!

P.S. You know where to find this photo uncensored!😏 Link in bio!😘

📸: @davekelleyphotography

I can’t tell you how many clients have told me t

I can’t tell you how many clients have told me their favorite part of my coaching is my opening meditation.

🔥My opening meditations are the shit🔥

Before we dive into all the things, we first remember all the things.

- We remember our Oneness with All That Is.

- We remember our unique divinity that is here for the world to see.

- We remember our power... and how we have the power to create any reality we want.

- We remember our purpose... and how we are here for a legacy, for changing lives, for something bigger than our one lifetime.

- We remember our identity of abundance and wealth as our birthright.

- We remember our worthiness... that we get to have it all because we are worthy of it all.

🔥My meditation is also a returning🔥

- A returning to our deepest and truest desires.

- A returning to the dreams we’ve carried in our hearts since we were children.

- A returning to our highest and best self who is always leading us forward.

- A returning to our wholeness and goodness that can never be extracted from us no.matter.what.

🔥My meditation is also an activation🔥

- An activation of our magic, the very things about us that draw the ideal clients, lovers, friends, opportunities to us.

- An activation of our worth, which opens the door and clears the path for that which is trying to enter our lives.

- An activation of our salvation by taking our power back and becoming the hero we’ve been waiting for.

- An activation of inspired next steps, that instead of being left confused and unclear, we get clarity and confirmation on what to do next.

- An activation of the law of correspondence, that what we create internally will be out pictured externally.

- An activation of new levels of success, fame, love, #AllTheThings.

It’s no wonder healing, revelation, upleveling, and miracles take place.

We remember, return, and activate!

It’s the fertile soil in which dreams come true!

All that before I even get to the coaching part of my calls😏

It’s available to you, too.

I have one 1:1 coaching spot open and 2 mastermind spots open.

Hit the life coaching link in my bio and let me know why you are the perfect fit!
🔥🔥🔥

📸: @statticframes

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you who mother! Wh

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you who mother!

Whether it’s your kids, other people’s kids, kids who’ve passed, fur babies, or your inner child... your mothering is valid and real and healing and changing the world... and you’re doing better than you think!

Proud of every single one of us.❤️😊💐

Let’s try that again😏 Instagram didn’t lik

Let’s try that again😏

Instagram didn’t like that photo so I drew some underwear on it to make it IG approved (even though I was wearing underwear in that photo - it’s called angles!) *swipe to see*

And you know where to find the whole set😉 Link in bio😘

Make sure to follow my backup too: @nikolemitchellofficial
❤️❤️❤️

Happy Cinco de Mayo!🇲🇽 Just dropped a 10 mi

Happy Cinco de Mayo!🇲🇽

Just dropped a 10 minute video inside my OF celebrating this day! Hit the link in my bio to watch it!😍

And as I encouraged my OF, take a few minutes to look up what Cinco de Mayo is all about.

For example, did you know Cinco de Mayo isn’t a holiday in Mexico and it’s not really celebrated there? And that Cinco de Mayo and Mexico’s Independence Day are two different things?

I didn’t until I was researching it a couple days ago!

This is why it’s so important we take time to learn and better understand cultural holidays, especially when they’re not part of our tradition or culture.

We have so much to learn from each other, and holidays like these are a great opportunity to do just that! Look up what this holiday means and tell me something you learned about it for the first time!

My toast for today:

May we love each other. Learn from each other. Be there for each other.

May we believe in ourselves when all odds seem against us. May we lean into the possibility and see what we can create.

May we allow ourselves to have the life we dream of. Because we are worthy, we are deserving, we are safe. We truly do get to have it all.

Love you!!

P.S. Check out my stories to place your vote on what you want me to teach on next - money or business! Let me know!

It’s not too late. Someone recently shared with

It’s not too late.

Someone recently shared with me their fear that it’s too late for them.

We can all relate to that… whether it’s about our age, our experience, our status, our situation… we’ve all felt the feelings of it being too late.

Here’s the thing.

It IS too late for you… if you believe that.

If that’s the story you tell yourself and you stack up all the evidence that confirms your own bias, it becomes true.

Why?

- Because you decide what is true.

- You decide what you’re available for.

- You decide what’s possible.

If you decide something is no longer possible for you, then you’re right.

Whether you’re talking about love, money, success, healing, hope… if it you believe it’s too late, you’ve decided your fate.

But what if you decided… that it’s not too late?

What if you decided… this is your moment?

What if you decided… you get to have whatever it is you want?

What if you decided… that the power lies with you?

What if you decided… all things are possible?

What if you decided… you STILL get to have it all?

What if you took 5 minutes to google people who ‘made it’ later in life… and started filling your subconscious with example after example of people getting what they want long after their ‘prime’ (whatever the fuck that means)?

Listen, the fear of it being too late is often rooted in not feeling worthy of what you want.

When the truth is, you are ALWAYS worthy of love, money, success, health, peace, freedom, happiness. Period.

It’s never too late (nor too early) to experience, call in, and multiply what you’re worthy of.

And you can do that NOW.

Mastering your worth opens the floodgates.

That’s why I love my Worthiness Workshop so much.

You’re doing the inner work… and you get outer results.

You’re going deep… so you can soar high.

You’re healing yourself… so you can heal the world.

As within, so without. Every damn time.

That’s the potential and possibility calling out to you on the other side of this workshop.

Will you join us?

Last call. Link in bio.🔥

📸: @davekelleyphotography

I used to fear getting what I want. Now I can’t

I used to fear getting what I want.

Now I can’t imagine not getting what I want.

I’ve gotten to such a solid, grounded place of feeling worthy of everything I want, that I can’t imagine a life where I don’t receive what I want.

So it doesn’t surprise me when I get what I want… or when I get unexpected upgrades… or when I’m offered steep discounts without asking.

Everything in my life keeps getting better… because I feel worthy of it, expect it, and demand it.

And that has given me one magical life.

Here’s the thing.

I didn’t get where I am today by feeling sheepish about what I want.

I don’t make the money I make by feeling squeamish in what I sell, how I sell, or how much I sell it for.

I don’t have the global impact I have by being afraid of being seen.

I don’t have the love that I do by feeling unworthy or undeserving of it.

It’s quite the opposite.

I KNOW what I want.
I feel WORTHY of what I want.
I let myself HAVE what I want.

And I don’t settle for anything less.

That’s what allowed me to go from $0 months to $10k months to $100k months.

From being afraid of what people might think of me to telling the world how to think of me.

From tolerating bullshit to having no space for that in my life.

From people who questioned who I am to people who celebrate, adore, and cherish who I am.

It’s made my heart full, my life beautiful, my passion unrivaled, my rising unstoppable.

And I’m here to take you with me.

Today is the last day to enroll for my Worthiness Workshop.

This course includes everything I wish I had known growing up.

About how worthy I am, how my desires are my birthright, how my life gets to be as magical as I imagine it to be.

My heart and soul are in this course, and I designed it in such a way that wherever you are in life - it meets you there and takes you to the next level. It’s why I return to it time and time again for my own upleveling.

Sign up in my bio!
Love you and always believing in you.

📸: @davekelleyphotography

Follow on Instagram

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell. Site by Micah J. Murray.

© 2021 Nikole Mitchell.
Site by Micah J. Murray.