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When You’re Highly Successful and Scared to Shift…

By Nikole / December 17, 2018 /

I was talking to the nurse as the anesthesiologist braved the third attempt to get the needle in my arm. The nurse was asking me what people are looking for when they hire a life coach. So I shared how I work with very successful leaders. We’re talking multiple six…

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When You Say Yes to Yourself

By Nikole / June 25, 2018 /

Last Fall, I was sitting in my therapist’s office on a Friday afternoon, processing with her the idea of someday coming out of the closet publicly. I had a lot of fear.  I was afraid of losing friends and family… I was afraid of being judged and talked about behind…

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When The World Seems All Right

By Nikole / November 20, 2017 /

Here I am, sitting inside a coffee shop, and I can’t help but smile. Life’s not easy, but right now, I can’t help but feel like this world is such a beautiful place. Every time I seem to turn around, I see beautiful things happening. Today, I had coffee with…

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Get Your Gratitude On!

By Nikole / November 14, 2017 /

Several months ago I was telling a friend about something difficult going on in my life and how I felt sapped of joy and happiness, and she made some comment about how being (genuinely) grateful can really help people find joy again. I maturely responded with an internal, “Ugh.” I…

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When the World Devours Your Dream(s)

By Nikole / April 11, 2017 /

I used to believe the world was my oyster, especially during my high school and college years. I was an optimistic, glass is almost always full kind-of-gal. Beyond the usual torment of high school (friendship drama, puberty, trying to fit in, etc), I felt the four year requirement of high school itself…

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