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My Hollywood Interview! (podcast)
First nude photoshoot! (blog post)
More from my Nude Photoshoot (blog post)
Make $10,000 months without all the bells and whistles (video interview)
Being Queer in a Straight-Presenting Marriage
(blog post)
Jesus and His Asian Mother (article)
Ask an LGBTQIA Person
(video)
A Voice for the LGBTQ Community (podcast)
My Messy Faith (article)
Memorial Day - Mourning Our Enemies Deaths (article)
Everybody's In, Baby (video)
Twisted Scripture 1 Timothy 2:12 (video)
Consumer War (video)
The Choke (video)

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My queer heart is bursting!!!! I attended a queer My queer heart is bursting!!!!

I attended a queer prom last night and I had NO IDEA how much I needed it and absolutely loved it!!

There’s something so meaningful, magical, and life-giving to be in a room full of your people.

Being surrounded by my LGBTQ+ siblings was so healing and so beautiful, I couldn’t stop laughing, dancing, and celebrating my humans!

I danced til I got blisters on my feet and it was absolutely worth it!

It reminds me of when I was on food stamps and I started spending time in wealthy spaces and started making friends with people who had money, I felt expanded, alive, and tapped into all kinds of possibilities. 

Though wealth was foreign to me, it also felt like home, and it felt SO good to be home with my people.

To learn from them, walk alongside of them, and celebrate our journeys together.

Wherever your people are, go find them.

Or, like @nikkacy, bring your people together.

There’s power in the collective.

There’s a collective remembering so when you forget who you are, your people remind you!

There’s a collective celebration, so when you don’t see the significance of something, your people help you see and celebrate it!

You are magic in and of yourself, and there’s magic in being with your people.

Make sure you have both!! 

Thank you @nikkacy for the magical night last night!!

Thank you @leoneliaswu for organizing dinner and a sexy ass 20 person hummer limo!!

Thank you @sharpe.Haus for choosing me for your featured film!!

Thank you to all the beautiful souls I follow online and got to meet in person! @landoncider, @breakthebinary!

Thanks to all my fashionable and creative and brilliant friends:

d.smith2014
@the_brianmichael
@Bettie_Bondage 
@nickycutler
@mrleonmost
@tonyso84
@nikki_eason
@ileosheng
@dickswaggerdrag 

You all made the night so fun and memorable!!!
Don’t confuse evidence with the answer. A short Don’t confuse evidence with the answer.

A short video addressing what’s come up on my coaching calls in the past week.

What stands out to you the most?

What evidence is currently flowing in your life and what is it pointing to?

I’d love to hear!😍

📸: @mistervixens
There are moments where we are gifted with a sudde There are moments where we are gifted with a sudden realization, a divine download, a life-altering breakthrough.

Over the years I’ve learned, try as I might, I cannot force these to happen.

I can set myself and my environment up to where I’m primed and ready to receive, but when I try to manufacture it or manipulate elements for the end result only, I feel only further away from my intended goal.

It’s less about manipulating the environment to get a specific end result from it, and more about feeling into the moment, trusting what we feel within, and when the inspiration hits, whether it be middle of the day or night, walking or showering, you capture it NOW.

There’s no “come back later when it’s more convenient”. It’s “talk to me I’m listening” while running to grab a journal to capture it all.

It’s trusting that if it’s coming through for you right now, there’s a reason for it.

Receive it, capture it, record it, journal it, ride the wave for as long as it’s there.

Relish it, savor it, cherish it, celebrate it!

Cry, laugh, dance, shout - whatever you feel, let it be released from your body!

This is a divine moment where heaven and earth meet, where the spirit and human mingle, where magic and reality dance… and it’s one of the sweetest moments we experience this side of the veil.

These moments aren’t often but when they hit, I come the most alive and they make me want to live - *really* live!!

They make me realize how sweet, how tender, how beautiful, how magical life is.

That whatever I am facing is a mere blip on the screen and that what awaits me and what lives within me is so grand, so breathtaking, so stunning that there is no thing I am currently facing that is worth compromising my future over.

What is coming is huge and beautiful and powerful and everything I want and more!

And these divine interruptions help snap us awake, course correct us where needed, and give us an energetic infusion right where and when we need it most.

What a gift! What a gift it is to be alive and what a gift it is to receive!!

What’s been your latest breakthrough? What divine interruption has happened for you recently?

I’d love to hear!

📸: @thelhway
A few weeks ago I had an interview that was quite… painful.

I was shaken to my core and cried for two days over it.

The day after the interview, I had a call inside my Membership.

I tried so hard to cry as many tears beforehand so that I wouldn’t cry on the call… but try as I might, I ended up sobbing on that call.

The space where I come to hold and support others was where I ended up being held and supported.

It was such a holy moment.

They saw me in a way most people online don’t see. 

They held me in my rawness and let it be safe for me to be me.

I didn’t have to put on an act.

I didn’t act like I had it all together.

Because in that moment, I didn’t. 

All I had was a very wounded heart and what felt like endless tears.

It was such a sacred moment and it made me fall in love with my Membership even more.

This is a space where the fullness of you is welcomed, wanted, seen, and supported.

We celebrate highs and we grieve the lows, and we come home to our truth every damn time.

This is where you can bring it all.

Our next call is this Wednesday at 2pm PST.

We would love to have you.

DM me for details!☺️

📸: @MisterVixens
💞: @ynbystudios
🎶: @stevielwright_
When I look back at my journey, there is one thing When I look back at my journey, there is one thing that sticks out as a key to my success.

And that is continuity.

After hiring my first life coach for six months, I thought I could go at it alone. 

I’m confident, capable, and smart - I got this.

And while that is true, I also realized how much I VALUED support.

Not that I needed it.

But I wanted it.

And when I didn’t have it, I felt more wobbly, more uncertain, and less stable.

So after several months of no support, I chose to go back in.

I hired a life coach, I joined a mastermind, and I have had support ever since (for over 5 years now!).

That continuity of support has been crucial to my success.

Life is full of ups and downs, being an entrepreneur comes with all kinds of good and all kinds of frustrations, and having continuity of support has given me a much more stable upleveling.

What could have been volatile without support was a little wobbly instead. 

I notice that when I stay in the momentum, when I stay in coaching conversations, when I know every week I have a call to anchor me and support me, it gets me through the dark days and heavy feelings that are so quick to come and sometimes not as quick to go.

I feel different, more grounded, connected, and powerful.

I value being able to process what I’m going through, shift back to my power, and walk away feeling more connected, clear, and committed to my rising.

Because of how significant the continuity of support has been in my life, I wanted to offer that for YOU. For my people.

So I created a membership.

A container to provide you the kind of support that’ll keep you in flow, keep you connected, and give you wings to soar to new heights.

It’s designed to hold you, guide you, celebrate you, and walk with you through all that you face.

To make it easier, smoother, lighter, and better.

With the membership, you get a group coaching call every week plus access to all my programs I teach each month.

I’d love to have you.

If this resonates with you, DM me for details.

Here’s to choosing support that holds us and uplifts us!

🎥: a snippet from last week’s group coaching call😍

📸: @mistervixens
Yesterday one of my kid’s asked me a seggs quest Yesterday one of my kid’s asked me a seggs question that would have once made me flush, stammer, and quickly try to change the subject.

But yesterday I paused, thought about how honest to be in my answer, and then answered their question straight forward.

As my kid went back to what they were doing, I smiled at the ease with which my kid asked me the question and the calmness in which I replied.

It really does get easier.

I wasn’t always comfortable talking to my kids about seggs.

In fact, I used to dodge the subject, deflect any questions they asked me, and try to change the subject if I felt the conversation was leading down a path I wasn’t ready to walk.

Denial was my strategy.😅

Denial that the conversation was happening, denial that my kids were learning about it anyway one way or another, and denial that I was in denial.😅🙈

Slowwwly but surely, as I started reading more kid books about seggs and followed seggs educators, I started collecting tips and tools in how to talk to my children, and more importantly, make my home a safe space where they could talk about anything and ask me anything.

And over time, my home became just that.

I sometimes still get a little shy when certain questions come up, but I navigate it with a lot more ease than I used to, and for that, I am grateful.

And sometimes their questions crack me up. While a lot of people are nervous about how to answer the question, “Where do babies come from?”

My kids are asking questions like, “What is @n@l?” And “What does it feel like when a p€n!s goes in a v@g!n@?”😅😆

And while sometimes I worry what people would think if they knew the questions that were being asked in my home, I truly feel grateful and a lot of joy knowing my kids feel safe here.

Safe to wonder, safe to ask, safe to learn.💞

Shame is never part of the equation.

While I’m nowhere near a perfect parent, this is one thing I am deeply proud of.

A shame-free home is a healing home, an empowering home, a life-giving home. And that is exactly the home I dreamed of giving my kids… and it’s here.

📸: @rangefinderpictures2
Eeks! In 6 days I am hosting my first ever VIP wee Eeks! In 6 days I am hosting my first ever VIP weekend, and I am SO excited about it!

I know what it’s like to meet in person. To see the other person face to face, to squeeze them in your arms… to feel their energy, to calibrate to them in real time, and to feel yourself expand in their presence.

There’s magic when we’re in the same room together, when we sync up energetically.

Relationships heal, businesses boom, money stacks, and everything… gets better.

Conversations deepen, wisdom is gleaned, permission is had, freedom is felt… and there’s an unearthing and unleashing that’s palpable, powerful, and unstoppable.

This is the intention behind this upcoming VIP weekend.

An unleashing of your soul, a deepening in your freedom, an expansion in your pleasure, a reception of more.

More money, more love, more business, more freedom, more pleasure, more of everything you want and a releasing of what you don’t want.

It’s a rising, a claiming, an assertion of who you’re becoming and where you’re going.

And it would be an honor to sit next to you, fan the flame within you, and co-create this portal alongside of you.

June 3-4.

Laguna Beach, California.

$1,000.

We’ll be diving deep into all things money, business, power, pleasure, and self-expression.

We’ll lock in the transformation within you, and make sure you leave expanded, upleveled, and equipped for this next level version of you.

This will be a weekend you’ll never forget and a jumpstart to your latest iteration.🔥

1 spot remaining(!).

DM me for details!

Love you and can’t wait to spend a weekend with you!!!😍

📸: @rangefinderpictures2
Ahh! Today’s module inside The Art of Receiving Ahh! Today’s module inside The Art of Receiving and Attracting Sug@r D@dd!€s was SO GOOD!!!

While module 2 focuses on Sug@r D@dd!€s, the principles apply to every area of life.

Learning how to receive what we want, leaving room to be surprised at how it comes about, and magnetically calling it in by raising our standards, honoring our boundaries, and being true to ourselves while honoring other people’s boundaries, will do more than trying to connive or coerce something or someone to happen.

This applies to love, money, success, fame, and even sug@r d@dd!€s.😎

This Masterclass is now available for replay! Sign up in my bio where you’ll get instant and lifetime access.😍🔥

📸: @mistervixens 
🌈: @ynbystudios
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